Take it easy, not a big deal. I was the same as you several years ago. But I am much better now, I don't know if my wife agrees, at least I think so. I tell myself it is not worth rushing for daily half hour commute from home to work, it is just sevreal minutes differnce. But I am still telling my wife why I don't want her to drive for 3 hours trip, it will take 4 hours or more if she drives. I believe when you grow older you will be more conservative.