回複：回複：逃離我的婚姻，回中國? Pls Help!!! -- more details

1. Don't go back to China, there is no such need. The U.S has much better law and enforcement for domestic violence, you can get aid almost immediately. In China, the law is in the beginning to take shape for this kind of issue. Just stay here, you'll be safe.
2. Do what ever you need to do, don't argue with him, if you see threat from him, run away immediately. Yes, run to the street and shout for help, people will call police. This is for emergency. In any situation you feel threatened, the first thing to do is get police involved, it's their job to control violence. The police will handle everything for you, including shooting him down if needed.
3. Don't give up anything that belongs to you, it's your house, your property, then that's yours, don't let anybody take it away! No one should bully anyone!
4. Take some personal precautions, for example, buy some devices for personal protection, next time he threatens you, then just stop him by using those devices, then call police (this is to make sure he cannot do any actual harm on you before the police arrives).
5. Consult legal aid groups, don't go anywhere before this issue is fixed. (don't go back to China, that just won't help).