Many thanks to 老貓，如塵 and 反受其亂.Further questions:

老貓，如塵 and 反受其亂:
Thank you so much for your input.Are you in CA? Further questions:
1.若申請表格上兩人的地址一樣, how to fill in the items in the form: Date of seperation, duration of seperation?
2.My hu*****and has a very hot temper. he often says dirty names , yells at me and our child and abuses me mentally. He has broken some electronics too. If in front of the judge i point these out and present the antenna and remote control he has broken, will the judge grant me sole physical custody without lawyer?

Thank you so much.

Happy holidays!