What she did is really supportive. Being a nice wife should not mean agree whatever the hu*****and does. She realized herhu*****and was wrong, and is trying her best to help him get out of the bad situation, and worried about his future. I think sheis really nice and supportive. Blaming him is a another way to show her caring for him, just in order to avoid him doing such thing again. That is a kind of help too.