I think your parents are right.

With you current hu*****and, no way you can give the child for adoption.

We all know how difficult it is for a middle-age woman in China. Not too mention with one teenager and a baby. Even in America, a female immigrant with two kids is very difficult. And I do not think the father can raise a normal child.

As to get greencard because of the child, with the record that you were planning to abort, with your hu*****and like he is, it could be troublesome. (Not impossible; but difficult.) There are all kinds of ways to get GC. Most of them are much easier.

Even not think for yourself, think for your son. He is going to be a teenager soon, living in a single-parent family. If his mom can not give him enough attention, his future could be worrisome.

Normally, I don't think it is right for abortion. But your case is different. Of course, it is your decision. Whichever the decision is, don't think back, don't regret. You are not alone, you have your son who is dependent on you.

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