是的，all these years, I looked like a single mother

I took care my children's health, all appointments,meetings, learning, school, afterschool.

he always say he wants to go back to china, he never mentioned a thing about what about me and children. he is constantly on the computer, maybe chatting with someone there.

You are right, I need to think if I get the child.

How about joint custdy? do I still be the main caregiver? and do I get child support. or he just pay when they needed it.

I am going to finish my reading in couple days.

blessings to you!