My hu*****and has seen my posting here and we had a big argument. He said others had replied clearly that I would not get the kids. He threatened me that if I would choose to go to the court, for $60k - $70k and 1-2 years, I would lose everything - hu*****and & kids, and the kids would go to foster home. He also threatened me that if I would like to leave this family, just go away myself. Then my son interrupted my hu*****and, "Dad, do you remember you hit me?" Then my hu*****and turned to urge my son to remember that mommy had hit him.
I am desperate. This is insane. Please if you have any advice for me and would like to help me, send me 悄悄話. No more posting from me here.