he gets a kid and u get a gc/career, so u r even, donot bother too much to think retaliation.
My hu*****and has hurt me too much as well, but i am an incurable cancer patient, he can provide me good medical insurance, so i calm down. I swear if i still had a chance, i just left and moved on. even now i am just selling my stuffs and get my money back, when it is time for me to go, i will divorce him and leave.
u have a bright future, just move on!