給苦惱男人和出牆老婆

苦惱男人：Since you never loved your wife, how does her affair hurt your feeling except your eagle? As you started your marriage by selling your soul/love for 綠卡 and 大耗子"), how come that your wife is the only one 過錯 one? Did you tell your wife your true feelings(" 可是想著能很快拿綠卡，而且在其他留學生吃苦的時候，我馬上就有大耗子住，也不錯。後來勉強結婚") when you got married? If not, you cheated first. As long as you do not love your wife, you already have a right to divorce her. But 你沒虧，你也不deserve your children, especially not her family money.

出牆老婆: Love can not be bough。 The respect and appreciation from the spouse are necessities of a marriage. 即使"-不飄亮，二不性感"是事實，you can not change them. They are gifts from parents. It does not mean that you deserve less. 出牆來彌補感情失落是下策。誠懇地給苦惱男人道歉。不要再跪下求他，也不要再提辦綠卡的事。It is clearly that these can not rescue your marriage. And you do not want to keep him because he feels that he needs to 報恩。 Your problem is that he never loved you based on what he posted here. 你要自愛first. 才能有人愛你。好好待孩子. 忽視孩子你以後悔。 Finding a good layer. You do not have to do too much, just give your layer what he posted here (called you ""-不飄亮，二不性感", and admitted '可是想著能很快拿綠卡，而且在其他留學生吃苦的時候，我馬上就有大耗子住，也不錯。後來勉強結婚" ), you will not be considered as only 過錯方 even you had an affair. American/Canadian juries will look down emotional 出牆 more than physical 出牆, especially when emotional 出牆 first. There is no ways that he will get "孩子撫養權", "我怎樣才能得到更多", and "分享這個房子的房產". He may end up having to compensate you.

所有跟帖： 

• 靠！他老婆雖醜不是她的錯，但就這樣的還出牆，就是她的錯了。 -這男的可以得到小孩- ♀ (16 bytes) () 08/01/2005 postreply 10:12:25

• in the court of law... -why-why- ♀ (39 bytes) () 08/01/2005 postreply 10:36:37

• "就這樣的還出牆"：are you discrimiting -BabyWCP- ♀ (507 bytes) () 08/01/2005 postreply 10:36:52

• ha, you are probably.. -why-why- ♀ (159 bytes) () 08/01/2005 postreply 10:41:26

• 醜女也有出牆的權利!! -老凶有歧視,- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/01/2005 postreply 22:31:28

• 您的觀點很不讚同. -請你不要誤導!- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/01/2005 postreply 22:30:05

• 出賣soul/love for 綠卡房子在先 -BabyWCP- ♀ (300 bytes) () 08/02/2005 postreply 08:58:05

• 回複：出賣soul/love for 綠卡房子在先 -基本上同意- ♀ (28 bytes) () 08/02/2005 postreply 23:36:48