Why don't you two forgive each other? You had an affair first and it wasn't her fault at the very beginning. And it seems you are a kind person. If you aren't abusive as the other hu*****and in another post, I'd recommend you two reconcil and don't make the same mistake again. Have the child and love him and be a happy family again. However, maybe I'm a woman, men may think differently. Sorry, good luck. Anyway, it's not the unborn baby's fault. Don't kill him please.