看夫妻雙方的完整故事. 不要看女人的一麵之詞

從浙江來的李某(男26歲)，01年初和蔡某某(女24歲)結婚，02年中以F1，F2入境美國德州，如今李某找到工作辦永久居留，無端要求與蔡某某離婚，蔡家得知很氣憤。
離婚協議如下：
當初結婚時男方揚言買房，食言，女方在10平方米的小屋裏睡著沙發床，苦不堪言。
不要求賠償，但要求向女方全家書麵道歉，承認自己當初是個大騙子。
女方為男方留學所讚助2萬元人民幣，要求男方在工作1年後償還。(男方月入5000美金，這點要求不算過分吧)
女方為男方留學，辭去工作，來美做盡苦力負擔生活，沒有上學，如今與國內生活模式脫離，不接受什麽“海龜”更好發展的荒謬想法。要求男方離婚後安頓好女方的學習生活。
每月500美金的贍養費。(男方月入10%)
僅此三條不算過分的要求而已，如果無法兌現，不存在協議離婚。
另，如果男方瘋狂作為對女方傷害的事，任何恐慌，騷擾，威脅，女方將申請法律援助，並揭發當初男方以假成績入學美國。
另，在上海的家人不會放過男方在浙江的父母。
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文章來源: 我就是李某 於 2005-05-06 14:27:53



I want to divorce with you because of the following:

1. Everytime when we have an argument, you always present this 2萬元人民幣. But do you know what this 2萬元人民幣 can be used to do in USA? Do you know how much money I spent for us during these days?

2. After coming to USA, you always stay at home. You don't want to take Toefl & GRE, neither you want to find a job. In these past years, your main job is to fight with me. The reason is that I can't provide you house and nice car as some hu*****ands can provide. You ignore these hu*****ands' past, they also studied hard then worked hard to get these house and cars. You only know their present.

3. I just found a job. But you want me to send your family with half of my salary to buy a nice house for your brother. I said whether we can do it later since your brother has a house already, then we had a big fight.

4. Except me, you also have contact with several students here, even after our marriage. They are still single. Everytime you told me that you know your value in USA: as long as you are female, then you have market here. I know you are still contacting with them by MSN.

5. When I refused to send so much money to your family to buy a house for your brother, your brother always went to my parents to "educate" them: your son grew up already, you both can't be any burden on him. My parents don't want to hurt me, they didn't tell me until last week your brother took a flat TV and DVD away from them.

I can't bear such a wife any more. I just want my other half can stay with me, no matter the life is hard or happy. You can't be a such one. All you care is money.

所有跟帖： 

• 訓妻論 -oldman411- ♀ (3281 bytes) () 05/06/2005 postreply 18:01:46

• 把房子，車和其他財產轉到你的父母名下。 -純屬意外- ♀ (484 bytes) () 05/06/2005 postreply 20:20:45

• the guy up there is nuts, -jojo1971- ♀ (129 bytes) () 05/08/2005 postreply 16:47:31

• 這不是一家人，人家是打工養男人的 -麵條好事者- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/06/2005 postreply 18:02:17

• 有哪麽巧嗎? 那男的也說了兩萬元人民幣,吵架的原因 -oldman411- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/06/2005 postreply 18:06:35

• 老婆這東西是世界上萬惡之源 -oldman411- ♀ (3187 bytes) () 05/06/2005 postreply 18:03:44

• 同意最後一句 -麵條好事這- ♀ (0 bytes) () 05/06/2005 postreply 18:06:03

• 回複：老婆這東西是世界上萬惡之源 -frankdotne- ♀ (36 bytes) () 05/08/2005 postreply 09:52:03

• It's not fair to say that -AprilRain- ♀ (321 bytes) () 05/08/2005 postreply 15:40:50

• 這樣的事在美國天天發生，看都懶得看，最好的結局：男人 -同意的回複- ♀ (361 bytes) () 05/06/2005 postreply 18:17:20

• 回複：這樣的事在美國天天發生，看都懶得看，最好的結局：男人 -niqusi- ♀ (24 bytes) () 05/07/2005 postreply 19:28:07

• 回複：回複：這樣的事在美國天天發生，看都懶得看，最好的結局：男人 -shanghaiRe- ♀ (29 bytes) () 05/07/2005 postreply 19:29:30

• 回複：看夫妻雙方的完整故事. 不要看女人的一麵之詞 -niqusi- ♀ (22 bytes) () 05/07/2005 postreply 19:31:55

• 另，在上海的家人不會放過男方在浙江的父母。 -這樣的女人絕對不是- ♀ (10 bytes) () 05/09/2005 postreply 11:42:18