不是東風壓倒西風，就是西風壓倒東風

I know to many smart chinese men with Ph. D. MS, etc. getting into trouble in dealing with their wifes in USA. Some of the wifes are not so smart but they do manage to get their LG,
and a lot of time both of them into holes where the couple has to spend a lot of money
and energy to get out of. Here are some suggestions:

1. Know the law. If you don't know where is the line, you are acting blind.

2. Always in control of your emotion, so you don't go over the line.

3. Proportional response. When your wife is acting outside of the accepted limit,
your responses need to be immediately, proportional and reasonable.

4. Manage your marrige is similar to driving, stay in the line with minor corrections.

Add your own ideas. You don't want to sit on your wife's neck. You also don't want her to
sit on yours.

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• 回複：yeah -yeah- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/12/2004 postreply 11:57:10

• 互相理解，互相包容，該讓的時候就得讓。不能像樓下那位，動不動 -叫警察- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/12/2004 postreply 12:03:28

• 當然她可能是醉翁之意不在酒 -人心難測- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/12/2004 postreply 12:08:50

• 回複：當然她可能是醉翁之意不在酒 -anyhow- ♀ (164 bytes) () 12/12/2004 postreply 12:12:56

• 想離婚，又想什麽都要，那麽把老公送進監獄可能是最好的 -辦法了- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/12/2004 postreply 12:26:03

• 你老婆怎麽沒把你送進監獄？？？ -俠女十三妹- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/12/2004 postreply 12:28:01

• 回複：你老婆怎麽沒把你送進監獄？？？ -我也動過手1- ♀ (40 bytes) () 12/12/2004 postreply 12:31:51

• 說實話，你老婆大概除了羅索點，根本上就是太善良！！ -俠女十三妹- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/12/2004 postreply 12:34:37

• 找不到傷，連她自己都說就‘推了幾下’，值當的嗎！哪來 -那麽大的仇- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/12/2004 postreply 12:36:54

• 嗬嗬，還要找到傷！你以為老婆是沙袋？？ -俠女十三妹- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/12/2004 postreply 12:38:35

• 得，老公進監獄了，躲一邊樂就是了，還非跑這來，好像多大 -委屈一樣- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/12/2004 postreply 12:43:37

• 這是你私人產業，別人不許來？ -俠女十三妹- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/12/2004 postreply 12:44:17

• 人啊，不能太缺德，要遭報應的！ -你們說呢- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/12/2004 postreply 12:47:33

• 太對了！支持！！進警局就是打老婆的報應！！！ -俠女十三妹- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/12/2004 postreply 12:50:55

• 什末叫動不動就叫警察？不會認中國字啊 -動手好幾次了- ♀ (14 bytes) () 12/12/2004 postreply 13:44:46