Ignore the lady. You need act quick. Your husband doesn't want live with u any more. Also he will have a new baby. The new baby will make your life complicated. Just leave him now. if you wait for too long, you will waste your time and energy, has no any benefit for you. Your husband loves the lady, otherwise, she cannot act like this. Man needs admire from lady. She admires him and want to knee down for him. Just leave him. Let him go.