So you need act quick

You need to start your divorcing process quicker. Don't waste your time with the lady. Whatever she said to you does not really matter. You are worrying about your husband, but he has his own life, and you cannot control him. Leave him as soon as possible. You will be happier. The lady also will be in trouble if she has one more kid with your husband, and your husband is not a responsible person. The time will let you see everything.