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Here is my prediction:

1. Marriage won't be the same anymore because of this incident.
2. She will always feel that the hu*****and has something to complain even not divorce
3. Relationship gets worse and sometime her parents also complains about him.
4. Finally break out
5. Divorce
6. Hu*****and paid huge amount of alimony and child support and all assets divided between them
7. Kids stay with mother most of time and stay with father a couple of days a week.
8. Her parents moved in with her.
9. She starts to find job
10. Life become tougher, however, parents made her happy
11. Try to find another relationship
12. Can't find someone or only can find a partner 
13. Realize man with similar experience won't commit anymore due to not willing to live with her parents and kids
14. Start to complain about parents involved to make this mess
15. Conflict with parents
15. Parents start to brame themself ( Only for some parents who can understand and learn from mistakes )
16. Kids grow up finally in a tiwisted family
17. Alimony and child support expired
19. Work every hard just to keep up and maintain
20. Parents die
21. Getting retired age and no saving to support her future
22. Start to rely on grown up kids ( found jobs ) to live with
23. Kids gettting married
24. Kids has baby
25. Wants to repeat the same her parents cycle to live with marrired kids
26. Wants to babysit grand child for kids
27. Kids or kids hu*****and refuse
28. Kids tend to agree with hu*****and and tend to reject her to live in ( Kids grew up in USA and tend not to agree this kind of chinese living style )
29. Tragic cycle finally breaks ( Good for her kids family, bad for her )
30. Start to hate kids
31. Living by herself alone
32. Kids sometimes to visit her with grand kids
33. Old enough to forgive kids not to live with her
34. Finally start to enjoy this kind of life
35. At the last moment of life, she starts to rethink about her life
36. Start to understand and regret
37. Die in a peace with kids togather in the hospital.

This is an example I have seen many chinese family ended up.
Sincerely wish you can make a choice to wake up earlier, not to follow  this prediction.
After 15 years of marriage with 2 kids, it reachs a break point for most of couples of a marriage.
Now it is the most of critial time in your life, so please to step out first to make your hu*****and happy. He has his own point not to live with your parents. Try to understand it and try to have a family only with your hu*****and and kids ( America defination of family ).
If not, above prediction will happen and some day, you will understand why and value of american family.
Your kids grew up in a incompleted family will have impact on their personality and behavir even in teenage stage.

Good luck to have your life and love coming back.

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• What a grim picture. LOL~. -正能量- ♀ (148 bytes) () 12/22/2013 postreply 20:06:19

• 回複：What a grim picture. LOL~. -FH-1- ♂ (759 bytes) () 12/22/2013 postreply 20:15:42