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警告標誌

* Does your partner intimidate you? Does your partner: make you afraid by using looks, actions, or gestures; smashing things; destroying your property; abusing pets; or displaying weapons.
請問你的伴侶恐嚇你嗎？你的伴侶：以外表，行為，或手勢；砸東西；破壞你的財產；虐待寵物；或展示武器讓你害怕。

* Is your partner emotionally abusive? Does your partner: put you down; make you feel bad about yourself; call you names; make you think you're crazy; play mind games; humiliate you; make you feel guilty, on a reoccurring basis?

* Does your partner isolate you? Does your partner: control what you do, who you see, and talk to; control what you read and where you go; limit your outside involvement; use jealousy to justify actions?
請問你的伴侶孤立你嗎？請問你的伴侶：控製你做什麽，見誰，和誰說話，控製你閱讀什麽和你到哪裏;限製你與外界的交流;用嫉妒為由證明行為的合理性嗎？

* Does your partner “minimize, deny, and blame?” Does your partner: make light of the abuse and not take your concerns seriously; say the abuse didn't happen; shift responsibility for abusive behavior; say you caused it?Does your partner use your children? Does your partner make you feel guilty about the children; use the children to relay messages; use visitation to harass you; threaten to take the children away?

* Does your partner have a sexist attitude? Does your partner: treat you like a servant; make all the big decisions without you; define men's and women's roles?
你的伴侶是否有性別歧視的態度呢？請問你的伴侶：對你象對待仆人一樣；做出重大決定時不與你商量；界定男女的角色嗎？

* Is your partner “economically abusive?” Does your partner: prevent you from getting or keeping a job; make you ask for money; give you an allowance; take your money; not let you know about or have access to family income?
你的伴侶“經濟虐待”嗎？請問你的伴侶：不讓你找工作或保持工作；讓你要錢；給你津貼；拿你的錢；不讓你知道或者使用家庭收入嗎
？
* Does your partner use coercion and threats? Does your partner: make and/or carry out threats to do something to hurt you; threaten to leave you, to commit suicide, to report you to welfare; make you drop charges, make you do illegal things?

If you answered “ yes ” to any of the above questions, you may be in an abusive relationship.
如果你對上述任何一個問題回答“ 是 ”，你可能會在受虐待的關係。

For more information or to speak with a DVC advocate, contact the Domestic Violence Center at 920.684.5770/1.877.275.6888 or E-mail us. dvc@*****cglobal.net

欲了解更多信息或想與一個DVC人員交談，聯絡家庭暴力中心920.684.5770/1.877.275.6888 或E - mail聯係我們dvc@*****cglobal.net

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