Now that you have decided to go to the court, I wish you win the case. I want to remind you some common mistakes our Chinese usually make in the court. My suggestions are:
1. Always respect and obey the judge
The judge will follow the legal process. During the process he could make some decisions that you don’t agree with and say some words that you are unhappy. He even may irritate you. Even worse, the judge may be biased. Anyway, under any circumstance, you should show your respect to the judge and obey his order. Even if the verdict is unfair and biased, you still should try to avoid to give negative comments toward the judge(You have the right to appeal). If you have to express that you do not agree with some of his decisions(first try to avoid to have open disagreements with the judge), you should use words like “I respectfully disagree … “.
2. Always show your love, not the anger
You’ll meet different people. Some of them may say some biased or insulting words to you (just like what happened in this forum). And you’ll meet that FP again. People will be angry in these cases. However, control yourself. Show people how much you love your son, how deeply you are hurt after he was mal-treated and how deeply you are hurt by these insulting words. Don’t show your anger to FP and those people who have hurt you. Remember, the LOVE, NOT the ANGER, will finally win the case.
3. Always be honest
NEVER lie. Even a single faked word could ruin your credits and put you in a losing position.
4. Don’t mention “Racial Discrimination” unless you have solid evidence
“Racial Discrimination” is a sensitive issue in North America. Unless you have solid evidence, don’t raise this issue. In your case, if you have evidence that FP ALWAYS allow whites to bring their children go to washroom during conversation, you can accuse her of “Racial Discrimination”. Otherwise, don’t mention “Racial Discrimination”.
5. Court is not the forum to show your smartness.
Take the lesson from 賀梅案. Don’t show how smart you are in the court. You just provide evidence and answer questions in the court. Let the lawyer take care of the case. Give people impressions that you are a weak woman, you are a helpless single mother whose hu*****and is not in Canada and you are a new immigrant just moved to a new country. This will help you to win the case. Especially it makes you easy to explain why you did not insist to bring your son to the washroom when FP did not allow you. Actually she did not have the right to forbid you to go to washroom. However, you are lucky. You are from China where government officials have almost unlimited power.
Good luck!
1. Always respect and obey the judge
The judge will follow the legal process. During the process he could make some decisions that you don’t agree with and say some words that you are unhappy. He even may irritate you. Even worse, the judge may be biased. Anyway, under any circumstance, you should show your respect to the judge and obey his order. Even if the verdict is unfair and biased, you still should try to avoid to give negative comments toward the judge(You have the right to appeal). If you have to express that you do not agree with some of his decisions(first try to avoid to have open disagreements with the judge), you should use words like “I respectfully disagree … “.
2. Always show your love, not the anger
You’ll meet different people. Some of them may say some biased or insulting words to you (just like what happened in this forum). And you’ll meet that FP again. People will be angry in these cases. However, control yourself. Show people how much you love your son, how deeply you are hurt after he was mal-treated and how deeply you are hurt by these insulting words. Don’t show your anger to FP and those people who have hurt you. Remember, the LOVE, NOT the ANGER, will finally win the case.
3. Always be honest
NEVER lie. Even a single faked word could ruin your credits and put you in a losing position.
4. Don’t mention “Racial Discrimination” unless you have solid evidence
“Racial Discrimination” is a sensitive issue in North America. Unless you have solid evidence, don’t raise this issue. In your case, if you have evidence that FP ALWAYS allow whites to bring their children go to washroom during conversation, you can accuse her of “Racial Discrimination”. Otherwise, don’t mention “Racial Discrimination”.
5. Court is not the forum to show your smartness.
Take the lesson from 賀梅案. Don’t show how smart you are in the court. You just provide evidence and answer questions in the court. Let the lawyer take care of the case. Give people impressions that you are a weak woman, you are a helpless single mother whose hu*****and is not in Canada and you are a new immigrant just moved to a new country. This will help you to win the case. Especially it makes you easy to explain why you did not insist to bring your son to the washroom when FP did not allow you. Actually she did not have the right to forbid you to go to washroom. However, you are lucky. You are from China where government officials have almost unlimited power.
Good luck!
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