補充: 女兒在公立學校闖禍了

兒女真是一個簡單的孩子.今天偶然說起那天的情形,說:
事發兩周多前,那個後來寫網的女孩說in front of xxxx and lots other kids, she was really annoyed at xxxx,she is going to make a 'Ihatexxxx' website. The xxxx agreed "Ok.....".
後來事發了,校長把xxxx叫來,接受大家的道歉.xxxx said "Its OK. I thought it was funny. A joke. I was on the site last night, and saw it. Then my mom came on, saw the website and got mad". 校長於是問"how did you feel about the website?" The boy repeated the same "I thought it was a joke". 校長又問"Did you feel hurt?". The boy thought a while, then shook his head slowly. 校長又說"Are you trying to say that the website was a joke because you want to cover up how much it hurt you ?". The boy thought for a while again. and nodded slowly.
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以上是兒女寫的part (I told her to be as honest, as pricise as possible). 一直都未讓她仔細回憶全過程 . 今天知道這些,心裏真不是滋味.也更證明了事情源於玩笑,因那女孩剛學建網頁.老師本應該正確引導他們,而不是把自己複雜的想法塞在孩子們簡單的頭腦中.
我不知我是否應該同學校談起這些.

謝謝聽我羅瑣.

所有跟帖： 

• 你孩子的權益，應該是你最關心的吧？表越澆和越深。因為 -月半婆婆- ♀ (159 bytes) () 12/15/2009 postreply 22:13:31

• 可能是這樣？：） (圖) -木每- ♀ (191 bytes) () 12/15/2009 postreply 23:52:00

• MS這點我不同意你的，細節要趕緊落實在紙上。越清楚越好。 -木每- ♀ (100 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 00:05:30

• 也對。 赫赫 -月半婆婆- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 10:18:42

• Respectly disagree with you -linshui- ♂ (627 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 07:30:39

• Her daughter just visited a website -eyehalfopen- ♂ (109 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 08:37:39

• 您隻看到一方的說法,您並不知道所有事件的真正事實. -單身老貓- ♂ (216 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 09:24:11

• shame on you是照抄對方的， -eyehalfopen- ♂ (62 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 10:06:19

• agree, shame on老貓隻許周官放火，不許百姓點燈 :) -結婚十年- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/17/2009 postreply 10:39:10

• Did you read the post carefully? -peewee- ♀ (302 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 09:04:31

• 冤，看一下網頁就被株連 -ladude- ♂ (16 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 10:25:26

• 9494, 就想當年如果咱聽美國知音，就能被說成特務一樣冤枉 -月半婆婆- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 10:28:39

• co：冤，看一下網頁就被株連 -木每- ♀ (23 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 10:58:51

• shame on you? what the heck! are you insane? -結婚十年- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/17/2009 postreply 10:35:59

• send a letter to your local sanate -ne0987- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/16/2009 postreply 18:00:17

• 自己的孩子，自己最了解，相信孩子，詳細自己 -結婚十年- ♀ (432 bytes) () 12/17/2009 postreply 10:30:31

• 所言極是！我管那叫自虐。還對disagree的擺出一副站在道德製高點的姿態。 -木每- ♀ (16 bytes) () 12/18/2009 postreply 00:53:03

• agree! -curiousGeorge2- ♂ (0 bytes) () 12/18/2009 postreply 12:51:03

• comego, what is the current status? -ncpga- ♂ (15 bytes) () 12/17/2009 postreply 12:33:31

• 回複：補充: 女兒在公立學校闖禍了 -comego- ♀ (376 bytes) () 12/17/2009 postreply 19:35:34

• here is what I think -ncpga- ♂ (272 bytes) () 12/17/2009 postreply 22:14:12