依據您現在所提供的資料,除非您是家暴的受害人,可能沒有什麼好的方式來解決, 基本上您可以尋求NO-FAULT Divorce"您需要做的是
(A)儘速租一個公寓然後搬出去
(B)僱用律師向您所在county的法院提出正式分居的訴求(或是在馬州叫做limited divorce)
其實您可以自己file 所有表格,但是鑑於您與您夫人的關係,個人會建議您交給律師去處理.
這是URL for 所有的表格.
http://www.courts.state.md.us/family/forms/divorce.html
詳細的流程如下
DIVORCE
Under Maryland Law, you have the right to represent yourself in all legal cases, including divorce.
The legal term for representing yourself is "pro se," pronounced "pro say") which is Latin for "on your own behalf." Representing yourself is not a good idea for everyone. It is important to understand that by representing yourself, you may be giving up important rights. It is very important for you to find out if your spouse has a pension, retirement account, insurance or other significant property before you decide whether to file your own divorce. If you do not ask for such things in the divorce, you will give them up forever.
Before you file for divorce on your own, you need to talk to your spouse, if possible, and find out how he/she feels about the divorce and about the issues mentioned above. This will give you an indication on how to proceed with the divorce.
The law limits the authority of the court to grant divorces (known as a question of jurisdiction-can this court hear this divorce?). The law also dictates when the court has jurisdiction over a divorce proceeding.
Within Maryland, the circuit courts have jurisdiction to hear divorce cases. Generally, the circuit court with jurisdiction for your case is the circuit court in the county where you live or the circuit court in the county where your spouse lives. When you file the relevant papers, you must have stated your grounds for that court to have jurisdiction. If not state correctly, your spouse could file a motion to dismiss your case.
After you file your papers, your spouse has 30 days (if your spouse lives in Maryland), 60 days (if your spouse lives outside of Maryland, but in the United States), or 90 days (if your spouse lives outside the United States) to respond to your request for divorce (known as a Complaint. If your spouse fails to respond, the court will proceed with the divorce so long as service of process has been completed correctly. Whether or not your spouse responds, you and your corroborative witness will have to appear before the court (in almost all cases the hearing will be before a master) in a hearing scheduled by the clerk. After your corroborative witness testifies and you have presented other evidence, and if your spouse answers or shows up, then your spouse will also have a chance to do the same. At the end of the hearing, the court (in most cases it will be a master who makes a recommendation to the court) will decide at some later time (normally 30 days) to grant a divorce and a settlement of marital issues.
(資料來源:
http://www.mdfamilylawyer.com/mdpages/Divorce/divorcerequirements.asp#1
您也可以諮詢這裡,尋求更多的幫助.
http://www.courts.state.md.us/family/selfhelp.html
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