You are right. I am very straightforward, kind of stupid.
My hu*****and insisted to take our daughter to visit his mom certain day once a week, no matter it is raining outside, or snowing, or baby has a mild fever. I said "would you change another day since baby is slightly sick?" He refused and he thinks that I make it a big deal out of it.
Yesterday he intentionally went home early. He called me that he wanted to take baby to his mom's house. The only reason to choose that timing is to go without me, because I can't leave my work that early. I said "we should go as a family. Your mom doesn't want to see me and she wants me out of the picture, but you as a hu*****and should stand up for me and tell her "we are a family, we stick together.". Finally he didn't go. But he said he will take baby to visit his mom without me this morning. This morning, I noticed that he removed the car seat base from my car.