如果這個男人順利找到一份10幾萬年薪的工作，恐怕也不會那麽焦慮了。無論在哪裏，日子都可以好好過了。

一個男人不能撐起這個家，這種壓力對他應該是很大的吧。

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• co：如果這個男人順利找到一份10幾萬年薪的工作，恐怕也不會那麽焦慮了。無論在哪裏，日子都可以好好過了。 -Kamioka- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/23/2012 postreply 15:43:27

• 我不覺得，一年10萬了還想著20萬。到時候看到一個更能幫他的或許又提離婚。 -卡洛拉- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/23/2012 postreply 15:43:42

• he doesn't even have a job. that's a huge difference. -Kamioka- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/23/2012 postreply 15:45:53

• but does not really effect their normal living right? is that a -卡洛拉- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/23/2012 postreply 15:47:18

• is that a good enough reason he can make decisions without infor -卡洛拉- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/23/2012 postreply 15:49:40

• yes it does. for example if she goes to US she can't legally wor -Kamioka- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/23/2012 postreply 15:49:51

• so discuss about it. not just fly to US without telling her -卡洛拉- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/23/2012 postreply 15:50:48

• 海龜的，有老婆娃一起去的，也有留守的。但是都是商量著來的。 -卡洛拉- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/23/2012 postreply 15:52:12

• read the post again. he did tell her b/c she said 'he's going to -Kamioka- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/23/2012 postreply 15:53:15

• he's going to US in 2months. just didn't get her approval before -Kamioka- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/23/2012 postreply 15:54:47

• didn't get her approval before he made the decision. -Kamioka- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/23/2012 postreply 15:55:22

• do you like just be " informed "? -卡洛拉- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/23/2012 postreply 15:56:01

• I'm saying she knew 2 months before he left but apparently can't -Kamioka- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/23/2012 postreply 15:59:12

• can't convince him not to go. they're not on same page when thin -Kamioka- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/23/2012 postreply 16:00:15

• when thinking about things which is a bigger problem. -Kamioka- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/23/2012 postreply 16:01:01

• YUP。 and does not seems he want to make any changes for her. -卡洛拉- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/23/2012 postreply 16:01:17

• she doesn't know how to work his mind after all these years... -Kamioka- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/23/2012 postreply 16:04:56

• 讀到博士焦慮，那叫學士和碩士或者高中沒畢業的都不活了麽？這老公心態不好，再多錢也沒用。 -卡洛拉- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/23/2012 postreply 15:46:17