如果你沒有用EAD而是一直保持了你的H1身份

假設你一直保持了H1身份，那麽在你的485批準前，你可以回國結婚，然後讓你的配偶單獨去申請H4 （你用AP回美），或者和配偶一起申請H1/H4，然後憑H1/H4回美國，你的配偶在美國遞交485。You can have both AP and H1 visa at the same time, and it is entirely your choice what you want to show the immigration officer at the border when you come back. Using AP alone will not invalidate your H1 status.

你們也可以再結婚後，讓配偶選擇consular processing, but then she won't be able to come to the US while she waits for her case to be processed. She will have to remain in China until she gets her GC approved.