To: "太沒人性了"

You are too emotional! Too sensitive!! You are not a negative person, are you? Why do you look at things from a negative way?

We are here for Exchanging Information and help each other, not just to kill time here.

One of the natures of human is sympathy. But sympathy is not enough since it is not the solution to the problem.

In my original posted message, I offered my sympathy and my suggestions. I offered to ask the questions politely. What was wrong with that?

The information I asked is the general information not confidential information. Do you think I try to steal his secret? Do you think that information is secret? Do you think it hurts a person if he/she reveals such information?

I think the information here should benefit everybody who visits this site. I believe most people who visit here are struggling for GC also and may have a very similar situation as the victim of INS unfavorable decision. The victim’s experience may help others (including me) to avoid repeating similar mistakes. Do you think you would like other people to repeat the same mistakes, don’t you?