Cool down. If you do not want divorce, the only solution

is not go to court. if you go to court, and he make his mind to divorce, you will have no way to keep the marriage. The judge will sign divorce immediate. The only thing the court judge does is to calculate the child support. yes, calculate. many states have the equation for child support on their website. you can calculate by yourself now.
The scenario is he wants to divorce you and marry his GF. He has to do that before he gets his green card. but you want to get green card and let him go. If that is true to you. The best way to you is:
1. convince him that you are trustful to stick what you promise, never change your promise in future.
2. negotiate with him that, you both file green card together and then sign a divorce agreement.
3. he goes back China and marry his GF, but not file I-485 for his new wife until you get your GREEN CARD.
He still can file I-485 for her after he (and you) gets his green card as long as they get married before he gets his green card.
4. Both move on to find your new life.

In such way, you both get what you want. Otherwise, both or either part will get hurt hard.
based on USA court practice, if he files case in court, you will have nearly no chance to keep you marriage. Then he will pay required child support. But he still has some chance to get child custody and ask you to pay child support if that is what he ask.

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