Chinese people trust relatives and blood relationship too much, really too much! In many cases, hurt comes from relatives and close friends. So, find out one person's character is much better! If your close relative, like brother or sisters, is a kind of selfish and bad people, no matter how close you are, they will hurt you sooner or later, and just like the American man, use people as ATM machine.
This kind of bad things are happening everyday in Chinese! I met several before.
So, control your own life and select the right direction by yourself, and make final decision when you have enough confidence that you know things clear enough. Never let other people tell you which direction you go, no matter how close you are.
Unfortunately, too many people wish and believe they are lucky enough to get what they want without hard working. Too bad!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
That is why I never believe relationship!
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• Trust a good friend or relative -china123- ♀ (63 bytes) () 04/07/2008 postreply 21:06:54