我跟他結婚時,他是負資產,所有錢財均在股票市場輸掉,還欠下二三十萬的債,這些債務在2005年付清。我跟他結婚時是住在租的兩房一廳的公寓裏。他一直說他跟我結婚時沒簽婚前協議,說我占了他的大便宜。現在他想出了一個婚後協議,他拿給我看。我跟他結婚後,他的生意一下子好了很多,這幾年賺了有幾百萬,可以說現在的所以財產都是婚後積累下來的。婚後協議主要幾點如下:
1. Ivan wants the right to use the money, which he is the sole bread earner, the way he see fit. Karen, a home-maker will be given the present salary by him plus $5000 a month. She obviously has the right to spent the money as she likes .
2. Ivan wishes to have more children or at least one more and Karen doesn’t want to and Karen is also getting old and had 3 c-sections, one c-section from previous marriage. Karen may decide to have one more and to start trying to conceive after Aug-Sept 2008. So the couple with wait till that time to decide whether they will stay together or go their own way
3. If they were to divorce. Ivan will give Karen one million dollar in 3 installments and complete it within 3 years or sooner.
4. Then Ivan will continue the present salary plus the $5000 per month till the youngest become 18 years old. The salary will discontinue on the day Karen marries someone else.
結婚幾年來,盡心盡力照顧這個家庭,家務樣樣是好手,現在心已涼透,不想和這樣的人繼續過日子,請大家幫我看看這樣的離婚條件對和我孩子們公不公平? 他給我的薪水是稅前6萬,稅後4萬多。(因為我在中國是職業婦女,大公司的部門經理,他說到美國後不需要我工作,隻需要照顧家庭,他會給我一份薪水,由我自由支配。其實我在家幫他做很多paper work的工作。)
他說想我明年再給他生一個孩子,如果還是女孩,他不甘心,但我年紀已大,開了四刀,不能再生了,他說會找別人再幫他生兒子。這樣的情況,我怎麽能再被他利用一次做他生孩子的工具,因此想跟他離婚,他同意離婚照他的婚後協議上的條件。