take it easy

Many others here have said this again and again: if it is yours, it will be yours. Other than that, do whatever you need to do: getting married, having kids, buying house, and enjoying your life.

GC is just one part of our life, though I admit that we may get stuck in it for years. But you know what, when you decide to stay in this country, you know exactly what you are gonna encounter sooner or later.

Don't complain that other folks got their GCs before you. Life is unfair, admit it. What matters is, if we have already fought it, like we did this past month, what else can you do? Complaining will not do good to our health, grin and bear it and live a happy life.