回複：跪求各位大俠, 這個問題有多嚴重?

Seeing the similarity between your case and the once below, you may take a look at there.

http://web.wenxuecity.com/BBSView.php?SubID=immigration&MsgID=311209

I suppose you are the primary applicant which will make your spouse catches less attention in your application, so the situation is not as bad as what you feel right now.

Good Luck.