回複：回複：you just reminded me that I have the same problem

I will enter the correct spelling name. Same as his passport and other IDs. In your case, I think you should use his name from your birth certificate. In case USCIS asks for REF, you can use your father's passport and other documents to approve it. I think USCIS only cares that your wife is your legal spouse. They won't pay attension too every detail information on the marriage certificate.