I have the simialr situation as yours although I have not received the cards. Probably this week or next week.
I am concerned about my daughter'd case which is still pending as your daughter. But my neighbor's son got approved. Is kid stuck in name check or delayed by other things? My daughter (16 years old) just did code 1 FP (I asked ACS to do code 3, but they just followed the FP notice), so it is likely she will need a code 2 FP. How is your daughter's FP. Please share this information.