Why you are so hostile to her? She just ask your opinion. You were suffered, you were hurt, you want to revenge by hurting her? Afterall, she is Chinese. If you like to answer her question, she will appreciate you, but just don't be too hard for her.
Marry an American dosn't mean good anyhow. She misses Chinese friends. What's wrong with it? There is something wrong if we don't help her, or even hurt her.