try to reach them and also...

My wife had similar situation. Try to reach the counlsor in China by phone and talk to the director (or so) directly, and explain the situation in patience (we made that happen last year). This may or may not help but just have faith in your heart.

Look around you will find cancer is not equal to death...

1. Pray hard (go to Chinese church if you have not done so, it's very helpful when someone can help you with full sincerity).
1.5 Have faith in your heart, and be willing to fight, fight and fight.
2. Try (Guo Lin Qi Gong)
3. Continuously search for new info (trial) close to your case
4. Try to find the doctor that you feel comfortable.
5. Faith, faith, and faith.

You can send email/phone to [e-mail] and I'd like to take to you on the phone if you, trust, me.
May you be deeply blessed,...