I need some help.

Obviously I am a stupid idiot. I have to confess. I had an five-year affair with a colleague (I am single, he has family). In the end of last year he turned me in (to his family) because we did fighting for some reason. Then it seems everthing is over. The guy is screwed by his wife, in the past several months his wife (japanese housewife, 7 years older than the hu*****and) never stops fighting with him, but claimed cannot live without him, although the poor guy is already kicked out of his house. I have never thought I would marry the guy, so I have never told anybody about this, for me maybe just for pleasure (laugh). At beginning I felt guilty to the family, but after the wife blocked my way on the way home, played theatre (shock, scream) in front of my door, followed me all the way home after my working, I become cool. Now the lady has the idea--blackmailing, she wants 300008364; from me for compensation, of course after she gets the money she still lives with her hus. If I refuse to give the money, she still goes on her show forever, she claims that she will tell my other colleagues (a big threaten to her hus.). What should I do now? I need some advice, although I knew I was completely wrong.

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• 既然知道錯了，就承擔後果。 -無忌你是誰？- ♂ (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:08:28

• 那就用最簡單直接的方法吧。 -fight-again- ♀ (50 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:15:16

• why do you ask here for help? -xtd- ♀ (37 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:18:22

• 啊，儂蠻來賽的嘛，。。。。。 -europe- ♂ (17 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:20:42

• 很難說，誰錯了， -europe- ♂ (79 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:19:25

• For the 1st time, 老歐 is so lovely. -stupididiot2000- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:21:07

• 我搞不懂，這個是什麽數字？ 300008364 -europe- ♂ (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:26:15

• 有什麽事情也可以難倒你這個 Pretty 老歐？ -fight-again- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:29:33

• 30k euro -stupididiot2000- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:31:35

• 夠買一個殺手了，徹底解決問題。 -fight-again- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:32:38

• oh yes, he is not only lovely, but also cute, very cute. -fight-again- ♀ (41 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:26:32

• 嗬嗬，你一樣來賽，english 隨開開，。。。 -europe- ♂ (24 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:28:56

• 這點點陰溝裏洗還是小凱司啦。 -fight-again- ♀ (16 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:31:50

• 老歐,need your opinion, thanks -stupididiot2000- ♀ (535 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:30:55

• 應該考慮讓她 quiet forever。 -fight-again- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:34:40

• I dare not -stupididiot2000- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:38:08

• 那如果你預計你的公司發展趨勢比較好，也比較賺得到鈔票， -europe- ♂ (238 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:52:08

• 30K不是30萬 -fight-again- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:53:49

• 啊，就 30K 啊，那就幹脆點，小意思， -europe- ♂ (32 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:56:09

• almost 1 year salary, so 1 year work for nothing as slave -stupididiot2000- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:03:37

• 要麽再談談生意，50%？ -europe- ♂ (90 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:25:38

• True, I even wouldnot like to show I am weak, -stupididiot2000- ♀ (181 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:31:32

• 恩，如果是這樣，最好是其它地區，最好是外地， -europe- ♂ (124 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:39:40

• 回複：那如果你預計你的公司發展趨勢比較好，也比較賺得到鈔票， -stupididiot2000- ♀ (202 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:02:12

• 如果我沒有理解錯的話那30K就是要你支付的打炮費？ -fight-again- ♀ (18 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:04:32

• 那你就把那個日本老婆介紹給老歐打幾炮嘛。 -fight-again- ♀ (18 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:06:28

• The guy also suggested that the wife look for some -stupididiot2000- ♀ (254 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:11:51

• I'm sure 老歐 will really like her。 -fight-again- ♀ (95 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:18:18

• 還是你的主意最好,哈哈 -wienermelange- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:21:33

• 之手兩全其美的解決方法嘛。 -fight-again- ♀ (60 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:23:30

• 我要向你學習~~~~~ -wienermelange- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:24:27

• 你既然敢玩火就應該承擔後果 -jjjjjj123456- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 12:35:06

• 這種事直接報警就好了 -wienermelange- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:39:16

• 報警怎麽說啊？ -fight-again- ♀ (42 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:43:10

• I did not grab. -stupididiot2000- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:47:32

• My conclusion is: the guy has mid-age crisis -stupididiot2000- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:48:35

• 那個日本女人要錢說的話就行啦 -wienermelange- ♀ (89 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:52:50

• If eventually no other options, I will do so. Then 1 or 2 enemie -stupididiot2000- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:55:15

• 奧地利，是這樣的，屬於真愛，真愛就無敵， -europe- ♂ (16 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:53:42

• I am afraid of being knocked in the middle of the night, -stupididiot2000- ♀ (208 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:58:57

• 事實上也是一個主意,但是如果那個女人跟蹤你,不是還能找到? -wienermelange- ♀ (15 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:02:27

• 真倒黴，被人家困了，還要付鈔票， -europe- ♂ (54 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:18:28

• I also thought so, what really annoys me -stupididiot2000- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:21:54

• 那男人也夠蠢的,這不是明擺著把自己當鴨賣麽 -wienermelange- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:23:29

• 窮山惡水出刁民，那些癟 三 窮人才不管呢， -europe- ♂ (30 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:28:02

• maybe he doesnot care. He got pleasure, his wife -stupididiot2000- ♀ (36 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:28:23

• 那老歐你就付錢去把那個日本老婆困回來吧。 -fight-again- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:25:11

• 別神經兮兮，人家在說正經事情， -europe- ♂ (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:28:57

• If so, everybody knows it, should I care or not? -stupididiot2000- ♀ (467 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:45:48

• 警察又不是大話精,為啥會人人都知道了呀? -wienermelange- ♀ (22 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 10:57:09

• let me give th emoney to his wife to console her. -stupididiot2000- ♀ (62 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:05:29

• Thanks for saying the same thing as myself -stupididiot2000- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:13:35

• 這男人台不是東西了,這錢是絕對不能給的 -wienermelange- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:19:31

• 不給錢好像不行的吧？ -fight-again- ♀ (50 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:27:08

• If not, maybe everything will be a disaster -stupididiot2000- ♀ (130 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:35:18

• 你這麽怕,還是去別的城市找份新工作,搬家吧 -wienermelange- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:38:18

• 人應該向前看，舊的不去，新的不來。 -fight-again- ♀ (158 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:40:21

• 個麽先問問老歐,zzy童鞋3年炮付了幾個錢,參考一下 -wienermelange- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:35:35

• Thanks a lot, Answer your guys later, now leave, sorry -stupididiot2000- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 11:38:39

• 五年夠長了, 隻是Affair嗎? 那就躲; 不是, 就跟她鬥一鬥吧 -claudia0708- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/18/2009 postreply 13:46:07

• 你的做法本身就不道德！如果你有丈夫，你不介意他和別的女人有染？將心比心！ -reader-only- ♂ (0 bytes) () 08/19/2009 postreply 00:57:58

• 切! AFFAIR本來就是理直氣壯的人身自由,讓她鬧去,把錢來給俺俺替你煽她去 -雇農- ♂ (0 bytes) () 08/20/2009 postreply 06:23:34