08在任的時候, 男娃有一天從小學帶回一張表格,讓家長幫填。 裏麵給小學生本人性別的選項不止2個,不止3個,甚至不止4個。 讓當媽的我看得一口氣快上不來,覺得08瘋了,覺得同同們過分了。
就在這樣對同同們的有色眼鏡下, 最近在HBO上追完Gentleman Jack 第一季,8集,2019年拍的曆史正劇,近代第一個出櫃蕾絲Ann Lister, 她甚至還娶了老婆。 看完後讓我180度轉彎,完全被女同Ann Lister傾倒。
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anne_Lister
Ann Lister帥氣灑脫, 精力旺盛, 幽默世故, 智力超群, 見多識廣。 Gentleman Jack裏麵兩位女主演的演技超一流,眼神和身體語言可以把情感的幾個層次表達出來, 裏麵的劇本台詞字字珠璣, 而音樂恰到好處。
為什麽19世紀的Ann Lister可以出櫃? 身為女人,是所在時代的弱勢。再加上被鄙視的蕾絲取向, 為什麽Lister可以做自己?
看完第一季後, 覺得主要這麽幾個原因:
1. 經濟實力在那裏--她是富有的大地主。 叔叔把家產都傳給她,讓她做上了一家之主, 家族裏沒有任何長輩可以製衡她。 名下產業有租出去的農田,有旅館,甚至還在開發煤礦。她的經濟獨立是她的立身之根本。
2. 非同一般的聰明。 因為她的好奇心和好學, 再加上出身上產,讓她可以接受很好的教育,20歲就遊學歐洲諸國。 她的聰明博學,讓她魅力非凡。
3. 抗壓能力-- 所以她可以拂去那些非議那些嘲笑,可以堅持做自己。
第一季裏麵非常喜歡的幾句台詞:
"Nature played a challenging trick on me, didn't She, putting a bold spirit like mine in this vessel, in which I'm obliged to wear frills and petticoats? Well, I refuse to be cowed by it."
"I was born like this. Why should I compromise myself?"
"We have language. We invent. We analyze. We build cathedrals and cities and society. We write music and poetry. We fall in love. Aren't we lucky to be alive to have life? Isn't every tiny moment an inexplicable delight, packed with potential?"
"Some of the most talented scientific men I've ever met are also some of the most profoundly religious. The more complex and sophisticated beings we are, the more in awe of our creator we become, surely."