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My hu*****and flew back to china to visit his familiy last Oct. During that period, I found I was pregnant. very happy. Then he was back, we went to see dr., but was told it was an empty sac, 80% a miscarriage, but want me recheck b/c it's too early to make sure. Like many other Chinese travellers, he got sick (fever, throat pain), took tylenon. Two days later, I got very serious cough. another two days later, I got miscarriage.
I asked him to stay with me and don't go back to China before we build our family. we both are almost 40 years old. He said: "it will be my Mom's 60 years old birthday this year, and my little brother will get married this year... " "if you are already pregnant, what's my contribution here?"
I told this story to another elder chinese friend. He just said he's so You4 Zhi4 (unmature...).