next time , when you buy,you do have to check with the mailing infor of the vendor posted...
however, it is still a chance the vendor is lack of experience and when they went to post, find the fee is much higher than expected... so...
recently I had one case in Taobao,who immediately offer me to refund... why I want the mnoney, I want that good which I can use and enjoy.... but what you can do...eventurely I offered them to deliver in a location in china where someone was heading sydney....