Love and Marriage

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When it comes to love in marriage, it doesn't matter that much whether you have faith in it or not. It's all down to whether you can FIND love in marriage.

Love in a feeling between two ppl. So as a start, it doesn't matter what one person believe or not. Secondly, even if both of you believe in it, but if you ended with the wrong person, you would simply be disappointed again and again. After a few years, your heart hurt, your passion worn away as you get older and older. Seriously, after you reached 30, there's little you believe in. Thirdly, love is a feeling, it can grow stronger or weaker. So it's diffcult to have faith in something that changes from time to time.

On the other hand, if you HAPPEN to FIND love in marriage, then some ppl say, "All right, I believe there's love after all." Other ppl maybe more cautions and say, "Ok, I have love now, but I'm not sure about tomorrow." But at the back of their heart, they don't really care. They are too busy enjoying. Come on, there's nothing in this world that you can hold onto it forever, no matter that's your health, wealther, or intelligence. So what make you think you can hold on to love forever?

All in all, love is a feeling, and ppl feel differently. So don't rely on anybody's theory or experience. Otherwise, you may end up in a terrible situation, or even worse, you may miss someone really great for you.

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200% agree -天外飛磚- 給 天外飛磚 發送悄悄話 天外飛磚 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 07/22/2009 postreply 16:54:20

This one is true -coffeebeans- 給 coffeebeans 發送悄悄話 coffeebeans 的博客首頁 (180 bytes) () 07/22/2009 postreply 17:01:49

是的 愛的長短不同 -馬大有- 給 馬大有 發送悄悄話 馬大有 的博客首頁 (285 bytes) () 07/22/2009 postreply 17:08:23

周星星的東西很適合你。。。 -coffeebeans- 給 coffeebeans 發送悄悄話 coffeebeans 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 07/22/2009 postreply 17:10:18

他的東西確實寓意很深的,不然能叫星爺。 -馬大有- 給 馬大有 發送悄悄話 馬大有 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 07/22/2009 postreply 17:12:30

你錯了,你的愛情超越時空,不受任何宇宙物理定律支配。 -Rafale- 給 Rafale 發送悄悄話 Rafale 的博客首頁 (248 bytes) () 07/22/2009 postreply 17:39:25

沒有那麽嚴重 既然人生是白駒過隙 那麽愛情比人生長 有什麽不可能? -馬大有- 給 馬大有 發送悄悄話 馬大有 的博客首頁 (43 bytes) () 07/22/2009 postreply 17:43:48

愛情啊…… -非典型性淑女- 給 非典型性淑女 發送悄悄話 (76 bytes) () 07/22/2009 postreply 18:13:30

哇。。彪捍 -絕不浪費青春- 給 絕不浪費青春 發送悄悄話 絕不浪費青春 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 07/22/2009 postreply 18:18:54

ZT, hehe, from a online fiction -非典型性淑女- 給 非典型性淑女 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 07/22/2009 postreply 18:26:06

愛情這東西也靠 -絕不浪費青春- 給 絕不浪費青春 發送悄悄話 絕不浪費青春 的博客首頁 (24 bytes) () 07/22/2009 postreply 18:30:22

love is not a benchmark for marriage at all, hehe -非典型性淑女- 給 非典型性淑女 發送悄悄話 (49 bytes) () 07/22/2009 postreply 18:43:41

那俺剛才白崇拜了..感情是摘抄語錄呀 不過還是很有水平的. -hl1108- 給 hl1108 發送悄悄話 hl1108 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 07/22/2009 postreply 18:57:47

有個性! -馬大有- 給 馬大有 發送悄悄話 馬大有 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 07/22/2009 postreply 18:23:46

咋你一點評就那麽到位涅 -hl1108- 給 hl1108 發送悄悄話 hl1108 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 07/22/2009 postreply 18:55:33

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