一船星輝
Loved, betrayed, turned on, turned off, ... can't help wondering the road ahead. But surely, there will be a shining star.
領悟放棄法則
在南美洲有一種奇特的動物--蜘蛛猴，要捕捉它們非常容易，你隻要在一個玻璃瓶裏放一顆花生，然後放在那裏。蜘蛛猴剛好可以把手伸進瓶子去拿那粒花生，一旦它們握住花生，手就抽不出來。但它們就是不肯放手，所以……
自己想獲得什麽, 那麽在得到它之前必須知道先要舍棄什麽。
One-half of knowing what you want is knowing what you must give up before you get it.
-- Sidney Howard
[CD note]: Very often, what you have to give up is something you enjoy, something you wanted badly, or even something in your belief. The give-up might even hurt someone you care about. But that's the cost, and it's something you have to sacrifice. Think ahead clearly and thoroughly before you're committed to anything, or you will have to make a tougher decision half way there, which could easily crush you.
Sometimes, it's a self-enlightened abandoning, just like a butterfly flying out of its cocoon, or it could be a trade with devil. Be careful.
