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First Weekend of August

(2017-08-05 12:59:44) 下一個
I am alone all by myself for the weekend. LD flew early this morning to help our daughter settle down. I meant to go back to sleep after sending him off to the airport. However tired and sleep-needy, I remained awake on bed. Then I decided to go to an auto repair shop to have the car maintained. The maintenance light has been on for a week. It is time for a  checkup.  By 8:15am, I was at Henry's Auto Repair Shop, waiting and reading WSJ in the room. 
 
Henry's auto shop is located 20 miles away. The owner is a Chinese, who is pretty honest and trustworthy. Except for regular oil change that is normally done locally for the old car,  we have been here a couple of times whenever there is an issue. Though low mileage and no other big problem,  this old Honda car is aging anyway.  There are gas leakings in four areas. Henry suggested getting three places fixed first, and I need to wait another two or three hours ( in reality, it is almost 4 hours already by the time I am writing this).  I nodded, as I don't want to come back another time. With a cell phone and the newspaper, I guess it will be fine for the long wait, though I felt a bit tired after a wakeful night and an early rise. Maybe it won't be long before we need to buy another new car. 
 
Sitting and closing my eyes, I tried to meditate. The fan and the TV has been on,  with louder mechanic noises coming from windows next to workshop. In meditation, I tried to steep myself in the joy of being solidary, the joy of having the whole weekend to myself.  Being alone always means complete freedom and flexibility, and I am so looking forward to it.:))) However this is tainted now with the seemingly endless wait.
 
As hours drag on, I felt back pain, and my impatience escalated by minutes. I should have chosen to come back another time with LD's company. I made the wrong decision today.
 
Henry then apologetically told me that the technician was at lunch, which reminded me of my rumbling stomach. I walked out in the scorching sun to search for food in the new neighborhood, but to no avail.  I don't know how long I have to wait more. That is the cost of being frugal.  A rich person with a new car will never experience this.  I cannot help questioning the "virtue" of frugality. The cost, the opportunity cost, hidden and invisible, is sometimes unbelievably high!
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暖冬cool夏 回複 悄悄話 回複 '彩煙遊士' 的評論 : 謝遊士特來看望。上周六沒見你post新的內容啊?同問好!
彩煙遊士 回複 悄悄話 暖冬好!過來看看你,祝你新周快樂!
暖冬cool夏 回複 悄悄話 回複 '思韻如藍' 的評論 : 思韻懂我,你那日那篇新舊鞋子,很有感慨。改天再來寫一篇,節約和不節約。思韻周日快樂!
思韻如藍 回複 悄悄話 姐姐跟我一樣,總想節儉,結果又節成了浪費---窮人永遠的悲哀!:) 以後我們都想開點,哈哈!
暖冬cool夏 回複 悄悄話 回複 '彩煙遊士' 的評論 : Thank you, scholar You. Thanks for your greeting every Friday. It is already autumn, and soon you will have a fruitful and harvest season. Good luck, and happy harvesting!
彩煙遊士 回複 悄悄話 Another week
Another nice piece of writing
Time flies
Summer is almost over
暖冬周末快樂!
暖冬cool夏 回複 悄悄話 回複 'erdong' 的評論 : 謝謝邇東,沒想到這麽久的,先生正好也不在身邊。所以才有此經曆。謝謝你的建議和留言!
erdong 回複 悄悄話 我們一般先約個時間,開兩部車去,把檢修的車留下,就去shopping。等他們來電話後再去取。在那裏等那麽長時間受不了。
暖冬八月快樂!
暖冬cool夏 回複 悄悄話 回複 '獅子羔羊' 的評論 : 獅子好!你也有類似的經曆啊,你還會唱歌,來打發心情和時間啊,:))我是足足等了六個小時,下次再也不幹這種傻事了。謝謝獅子臨博!
獅子羔羊 回複 悄悄話 我上次也是的開始告訴我是一個小時,我就決定等了。後來告訴我有兩個recall,需要三個小時。我立刻唱起了“rain,rain go away, come again the other day...."

一個重要原因是我的手機沒電了,電腦也沒帶,沒法工作。

暖美眉可別餓壞了,想法子吃點東西,一般車行都有些小零食和飲料的。
暖冬cool夏 回複 悄悄話 回複 'Once-always' 的評論 : mm百忙之中還來看我的博客啊,謝謝了。是啊,時間在fixed income valuation重要,在我個人也應該重視的。那天沒想到會等這麽久,老公一起來,至少可以載我回家的,老夫老妻了,還彈什麽琴啊:)))
Once-always 回複 悄悄話 暖mm is talking about the time value here which is the most Important piece in fixed income valuation. Since I'm at work let's have some work-related conversation. 這樣虎老板不能說我開小差了吧, hehe. waiting挺磨練人的意誌的,好在暖mm愛讀書愛寫文,可以打發一段時間。下回讓LD陪著,可以一邊等一邊談情說愛。:)
暖冬cool夏 回複 悄悄話 回複 'ziqiao123' 的評論 : 謝子喬問候,昨天主要是太累,整整等了六個小時,加上前一天晚上沒睡幾個小時,加上想想自己這輩子錯過的機會,不知能買多少輛好車了。節約is not always a virtue.今天恢複正常了。謝謝子喬。
ziqiao123 回複 悄悄話 暖冬昨天有點兒鬱悶,今天心情可好?我們那個年代過來的都有節儉的習慣,其實是一個很好的習慣,我們下一代就沒有了。周日愉快!
暖冬cool夏 回複 悄悄話 回複 '夕陽影裏一歸舟' 的評論 : 歸舟妹妹好! I finally got my car after 2pm. The part they ordered and delivered did not fit, and in the end, Henry's wife had to go to dealer and get it in person. It was such a long day. I brought with me enough to read, but was too tired and thus restless The auto shop is in the commercial area and strangely enough, I did not find any food, restaurant or grocery store nearby. The cost of being frugal in this context is the time. Yes, frugality is a habit and it is not always a virtue. You may save less but lose more. Thank you for your visit, asking and comment.
夕陽影裏一歸舟 回複 悄悄話 So for how long eventually did you wait? I believe you could find something to feed your rumbling stomach. I always carry a Kindle, easily killing any number of waiting minutes/hours. Now with half of the weekend gone, do you feel the same about the luxury of having too much time at hand?;-) Being frugal is a habit, it is not about math. Happy Sunday, at any rate!
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