姍姍是我的女兒

不知不覺間,姍姍已經快十個月了,從剛出生的小不點到現在的小大人,好象一瞬間的事。有幾個朋友勸我給她建一個博客來記錄她的成長曆程。而我向來是一個懶惰的人,直到姍姍長成現在的樣子才驚歎時間流逝的速度。若果再懶下去,那些快樂的時光就真的無聲無息地流走了,不會留下
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不錯!不錯! Not bad !

(2009-12-01 07:59:37) 下一個

從今天起決定給姍姍寫雙語日記。這邊有很多這裏出生的孩子不會漢語,雖然我們一定會讓姍姍學漢語,終是沒法預知將來,還是寫一份雙語日記來防患於未然。

前天我買了兩條項鏈,晚上戴上試試效果好不好,結果被姍姍看到了,馬上要過去戴到脖子上,然後就去照鏡子。姍姍對著鏡子看了看,然後用手將項鏈攏到一塊,嘴裏說著“不錯!不錯!”那口氣就跟大人一樣。我又差一點笑翻,不知姍姍從哪裏學到的。

姍姍特別喜歡新奇的東西,每每看到新東西一定會要,不給是不行的。夏天的時候買可樂比較多,一般都放在冰箱裏,這樣喝的時候涼涼的比較舒服。姍姍見了照舊要。沒辦法,隻能給她喝。給她喝了一口,可了不得了,隻要姍姍看到可樂,一定要喝個夠,不給就又哭又鬧,有時還在地上打滾。我們隻好將可樂藏起來,有時就藏在冰箱靠裏處,因為知道姍姍愛翻冰箱。後來有一次,我們開冰箱時,姍姍竟然將藏的可樂給拖了出來,又喝了個飽。姍姍從小就眼尖,很難瞞過她。後來我上網查,原來孩子對糖很容易上癮,就跟吸毒一樣。後來隻好少買可樂了。

後來我們喝紅酒的時候姍姍也要,我們就騙她說是爸爸喝的茶水。剛開始還能騙的了她,後來就不行了,一定要喝。我隻好試著給姍姍講道理。我很認真地告訴姍姍,這是酒,隻有大人才能喝,小孩是不能喝的。等姍姍長大了,媽媽一定給姍姍喝。我隻是抱著試一試的念頭,因為姍姍的脾氣比較強,我沒指望姍姍會聽我的話。這次我卻吃了一驚,姍姍聽了我的話後,不再要酒喝,而是重複了我的話,大人才能喝, BABY 不能喝。我們一家人都高興極了,以後不用怕姍姍要了。果然以後我們喝酒的時候,姍姍總是很乖,不吵也不鬧。其實是我們自己小看了姍姍,她應該算一個很乖的寶寶了。

我總是很喜歡姍姍,看著她可愛的樣子,總是在心裏感激上帝給我的最美好的禮物。我也總是不由自主地誇姍姍漂亮。老公總是說我媽媽眼裏出西施。而我並不覺得我在誇大,姍姍確實很漂亮,尤其是她晚上睡覺前,瞪著眼睛看我的時候,或者她故意做一些可愛的動作逗我們笑的時候。在我的眼裏姍姍就是天使。

Today I decided to write the diary for Shanshan in two languages: Chinese and English. Many children born in Canada cannot read Chinese. Though we decided to let Shanshan learn Chinese, but we cannot know whether she will learn well. That’s why I want to write both in Chinese and English to make sure that Shanshan can understand those diaries for her.

The day before yesterday, I bought two necklaces. I tried in the night to see whether they are good for me. Shanshan saw the necklaces and immediately asked for them. She put the two necklaces around her neck and looked at the mirror. She looked several times and then put the necklaces into her hand to make them smaller. At the same time, she was speaking “not bad! Not bad!” like an adult. I could not help laughing hard because I never know where Shanshan learnt those words.

Shanshan likes new things. Every time she sees something new, she asks for it and we must give it to her. In summer, we buy many cans of soft drinks. Usually the cans are put in the refrigerator. So when we drink, they are cold and have a better taste. When Shanshan saw the cans, they are new for her and she asked for them. We had no choice but gave her a little bit. Shanshan likes the coca so much that she wants to drink as much as she wants. If we don’t give to her, she will cry and sometimes, lie down on the floor. We decided to hide the cans. Some are hidden in the corner of the fridge because Shanshan always run to the fridge every time we open it to get something. She tries to find something she is interested and ask for it. Finally she found the can when we open the fridge, and she took it out from the fridge and drunk a lot. Shanshan always has sharp eyes. It is rare that she ignores something happening. I checked Internet and found out that children are addict to sugar, just like somebody addict to drugs. Finally, we bought less soft drink to reduce the chance that Shanshan drinks too much sugar.

Later, when Shanshan saw us drinking red wine, she asked for it. We cheated her and told her this is the tea for papa. At the beginning, it is ok, she stopped asking for it. After several times, it is not useful and Shanshan kept asking for it. I tried to tell her the reason why we did not give the wine to her. What we are drinking is wine. It is for adult, not for baby. When you grow up, mom will buy wine to you and ask you to drink. I just want to have a try and did not expect the reasoning to be useful because Shanshan is kind of stubborn. This time I was surprised. Shanshan did not insist for it. Instead, she repeated my words: wine is for adult and not for baby. All of us were so happy that we don’t need to be afraid that Shanshan will ask for the wine in the future. Actually, Shanshan did not cry for it since that time. She just repeated my words every time we drunk wine. Finally I know that Shanshan is a very good baby. She will understand if we tell her the reasons.

Shanshan is so cute that I always like her very much. I appreciate in my heart that this is the best gift God gave to me. I cannot help telling, “Shanshan is so beautiful!” My husband joked with me it is because you are her mom, so you think she is very beautiful. I didn’t think that I exaggerate the reality. Shanshan is really very beautiful. Every night, she looked into my eyes. My heart is melt with tender. Or when she tries to do some funny things to make us laugh, she is my angel.

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