I'll Stand by You

Nothing you confess
Could make me love you less

I'll stand by you

這首歌獻給我的老爸。

周末和老爸視頻了一個半小時，我們父女談了很多。知父莫若女，我和老爸從來就是相像的，雖然我們很少交流，可是我知道我們都無法隱藏心靈最深處的情感。我希望老爸永遠在我這裏找到最大的支持。

掛完電話，依舊心情非常激動，想到這首歌“I'll Stand by You",一直沒有太注意過這首歌，可是突然理解透了這首歌裏麵每一句的含義，歌聲似乎呐喊出我心中每一句想對老爸說的。老爸不懂英文，也不會看到這一篇的文字，一切盡在不言中，他會知道我永遠的支持和愛不會因為任何事的發生而減少半分。

Shakira  

Oh, why you look so sad?
Tears are in your eyes
Come on and come to me now

Don't be ashamed to cry
Let me see you through
'cause I've seen the dark side too
When the night falls on you
You don't know what to do
Nothing you confess
Could make me love you less

 

I'll stand by you
I'll stand by you
Won't let nobody hurt you
I'll stand by you

So if you're mad, get mad
Don't hold it all inside
Come on and talk to me now

Hey, what you got to hide?
I get angry too
Well I'm a lot like you
When you're standing at the crossroads
And don't know which path to choose
Let me come along
'cause even if you're wrong

I'll stand by you
I'll stand by you
Won't let nobody hurt you

I'll stand by you
Take me in, into your darkest hour
And I'll never desert you
I'll stand by you

[小西瓜子]

回複ncbluesky的評論:謝謝藍天MM的建議和關心，失去親人的痛在一年之內是很難撫平的，舊的紐帶割斷了，新的紐帶要怎樣去建立，很多微妙的感覺難以言語，隻有靠時間來慢慢治愈了。
我和姐姐都邀請老爸來我們各自的家居住一段時間，可是老爸和老媽獨立慣了，不喜歡在別人的屋簷下生活，不自在，老爸過年在姐姐家住了幾天就很不習慣，回南通老家也不習慣，最後還是回到南京家裏一個人自在舒心。也許明年等我回波士頓他會來和我們居住一段時間。

[小西瓜子]

回複安娜晴天的評論:謝謝晴天姐過來坐坐，人世間很多情感非要自己經曆過才明白，我會珍惜和老爸剩下的歲月，我們之間越來越象朋友了，可是有時還是忘不掉他是我年長的父親，很矛盾。

[ncbluesky]

Maybe invite your dad to Costa Rica to spend some time with the kids.
My aunt just lost her husband. I called her and she cried on the phone. She said it is very hard to adjust the life without him. It is hard to lose the love of the life.

[安娜晴天]

雖然聽不到歌，但是理解你們父女之間的情感，謝謝分享， 祝福你們！
剛剛看了萬水千山和阿阮的搏客， 看到你們分享父女，母女情， 很感動。 望妹妹珍重， 問好一家人！