孤舟蓑笠翁502008-02-06 20:34:37回複悄悄話
之所以這麽肆無忌憚, 就是因為她太軟弱. -- so sad yet so true ...
sinosydneysider2008-02-06 16:41:54回複悄悄話
真妮 is really a wonderful counsellor, not only showing intelligence but also kindness.
Should we esp 木蘭木蘭 & 醫師 learn something from 真妮? Being kind is the most important personality we should have
木蘭木蘭2008-02-06 16:21:52回複悄悄話
Change the house lock, take the child with you and move away to stay with a relative or close friend.
That asshole needs to be taught a lesson that home is not a hotel! Actually even staying in a hotel requires some check-in and check-out!
醫師: What the hell are you talking about?! You are out of your mind advising the poor woman rewarding such an a-hole when he is behaving nothing like a husband and father! Nothing, I say! What's wrong with all you spineless women?! Don't you have some basic dignity/requirements as to how you want to be treated in a marriage/relationship in the first place?!
短短一句話顯露真正的強悍本色。
第二, 如你想他回家, 想辦法,幹事情,讓他回家.
第三, 要判斷你能不能讓他回家.如不能, 分家. 外麵能和你有真正幸福的人多的很.
第四, 不要失去自我, 家庭主婦也要有自我, 象XXX, 她LG怕是誰也搶不走的.
通常男人不回家是因為家的吸引力小於外麵,這不一定是誰的錯,是可能的事實.
哈哈，不過紙上談兵而已。
子非魚，安知魚之樂？
告訴老公你每晚9點準時做愛，不管他在家不在家。
都是中國人，我建議大家寫漢語，看著方便，也不是給外國人看。
木蘭的建議有點兒偏激，有嫌事兒小的意思。
林外芭蕉分析的很對。佩服。
我也不認為她想懲罰她老公。說實話，她就是想找個聽眾，吐苦水。你說重了，她也不一定聽。
Should we esp 木蘭木蘭 & 醫師 learn something from 真妮? Being kind is the most important personality we should have
That asshole needs to be taught a lesson that home is not a hotel! Actually even staying in a hotel requires some check-in and check-out!
醫師: What the hell are you talking about?! You are out of your mind advising the poor woman rewarding such an a-hole when he is behaving nothing like a husband and father! Nothing, I say! What's wrong with all you spineless women?! Don't you have some basic dignity/requirements as to how you want to be treated in a marriage/relationship in the first place?!
不管他在家不在家。