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世界上沒有什麽東西可以無條件地依賴

(2007-12-18 07:45:04) 下一個

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孤舟蓑笠翁50 回複 悄悄話 真妮,

I have so much respect to you – you reminded us so many lessons we could learn from our daily lives and more! And most importantly you have a strong sense of principles and promote good values that are the true beauties of the human beings! I see you in many ways as Oprah Winfrey!

I am so happy that you have so many fans that appreciate and adore you! I am so happy that the vast majority of the society support decent human behaviors!
蔡真妮 回複 悄悄話 回複孤舟蓑笠翁50的評論:你的立論如此正確,我--無言以對。
這說明在婚姻情感的領域裏,沒有一種結論可以適用所有的情況,隻能說是如人飲水,冷暖自知。
孤舟蓑笠翁50 回複 悄悄話 真妮,

I wish I could agree with you on this – I see more and more articles taking the position that if your spouse is cheating on you, it is actually YOU that drove him/her to that state! To me, it is almost saying “It is not my fault to steal – that thing is humanly impossible to resist!”

There are all kinds of marriages in this world. There must be ones that the couples grew apart (or one side was completely fooled) and became unbearable to stay together! There are couples dissolve their marriage without 有一天突然轉過身去!

Almost all the cases I knew, the 突然轉過身去's spouse was actually the one being overly treasured, trusted or controlled (like 大鵬 to 小雅, or 小雅 to 希), that’s why there is a SAD saying “man likes bad woman and woman likes bad man”!

I do agree that any relationship needs to be appreciated and nurtured CONTINUOUSLY ...
藿香 回複 悄悄話 受益匪淺(哈,我還能找到這麽生動的成語)。謝謝!
是感恩,也是律己。
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