老印小印爬過老中小中的一大原因不是歧視而是課外教育

老印的教育機會和社會地位是相匹配的。所以跑到美國來的也都是些真精英，知道怎麽玩上層管下層。這些經驗是上不了課本的。小中學習絕對不低於小印，但是缺少畫龍點睛的家傳身教。老中是中國曆史上比較奇葩的一代，往前往後，教育機會和社會地位也是比較匹配的，或者是不公平的。但是老中這一代還是比較公平的。所以老中有了所謂個人奮鬥成功，努力學習就能人上人的酸傲。其實上不著天，下不著地。而且把這種無知無畏也耽誤到了下一代。小中還得自己摸索，當然就差好幾步。小中小留都會好一些，但是想趕超小印恐怕還得一代。三代穿衣，五代吃飯。難著呢。

[VATraveler]

Agreed! It's those very soft, subtle touch or skills (communications, gestures, ways of treating things and people, etc.) that help a person thrive in a structured organization in the long run. This doesn't indicate that the first or second generation of Chinese aren't good at these areas, but that they're not so good in the Western culture. The first generation's too much emphasis on Chinese culture, attending Chinese schools, Chinese ways of thinking and doing things is drawing back their children from being more successful in the US I think. Again, I am not proposing against Chinese heritage or identity at all.

Your comments on CS in WXC are right on I believe!