蔥妹2017-05-30 06:24:37回複悄悄話
I think Xia was quite clear about these and well prepared, that is why I think she is such a wise and strong person, with generous sympathy over the general world. She cared others,including us, probably strangers who visited her from all over the world through the internet, sometimes more than herself. She is a person with big heart and with big love.
蔥妹2017-05-30 06:17:12回複悄悄話
回複 'MoatCity' 的評論 : Her father just passed away from lung cancer. Not sure which type of lung cancer she had.
MoatCity2017-05-29 15:46:22回複悄悄話
回複 '陳默' 的評論 :
When she first got ill, I asked her if there is any risk factor in her life, she said she does not know any. From reading her travel journal, it seems that her husband is a heavy smoker, on the trip he would go out of hotel room to smoke (as US hotels are mostly non-smoking), and not sure if that is a rule at her home. They seemed to like steak a lot, which may not help.
Little to young to die and it was quick.
Sad!
Where it began, I can't begin to knowing 冥冥盼問
But then I know it's growing strong 春來何處
Was in the spring 日漲愈長難相忘
Then spring became the summer 夏至春歸
Who'd have believed you'd come along 隨影隨形若無常
Sweet Caroline 佳人知音
Good times never seemed so good 良辰難忘
I'd be inclined 再不必盡訴蒼茫
To believe they never would
But now I
Look at the night and it don't seem so lonely 長夜孤燈
We filled it up with only two 共話西窗
And when I hurt 心中縱有淒涼
Hurting runs off my shoulders 也遺忘
How can I hurt when I'm holding you
One, touching one 咫尺天涯,共執手
Reaching out, touching me, touching you 四海為鄰鄉
Sweet Caroline 佳人知音
Good times never seemed so good良辰難忘
I'd be inclined 訴不盡萬般蒼茫
To believe they never would
Oh no, no
Sweet Caroline 佳人
Good times never seemed so good良辰難忘
Sweet Caroline 知音
I believe they never could 再不必訴蒼茫
親愛的小妹和小弟,這個周末應該是辦事的日子吧,節哀。雖然你們最後一刻不在你們媽媽的身邊,她最牽掛的就是你們,好好讀書,就業,做一個正直勤奮樂觀的人。這裏的阿姨和叔叔們都祝福你們。雖然媽媽走了,以後有機會去媽媽的家鄉看看。不要忘記她的家鄉。也轉告一下媽媽的同學們,他們給了你們的媽媽很多溫暖。
最後,請霞姐的先生看一下,
Ich m?chte Ihnen noch wünschen, dass die Erinnerung an die Liebe und die gemeinsamen sch?nen Jahre mit Ihrer Ehefrau Ihnen bald ein Trost in schweren Zeiten sein wird – denn diese Erinnerungen kann Ihnen auch der Tod nicht nehmen.
Herzliches Beileid. Vielen Dank für alles, was Sie für Ihre liebe Frau getan haben.
蔥妹2017-05-24 14:47:51回複悄悄話
送霞這首歌:Sweet Caroline( by Neil Diamond )
伴著歌聲,一路走好!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1vhFnTjia_I
Where it began, I can't begin to knowing
But then I know it's growing strong
Was in the spring
Then spring became the summer
Who'd have believed you'd come along
Hands, touching hands
Reaching out, touching me, touching you
Sweet Caroline
Good times never seemed so good
I'd be inclined
To believe they never would
But now I
Look at the night and it don't seem so lonely
We filled it up with only two
And when I hurt
Hurting runs off my shoulders
How can I hurt when I'm holding you
One, touching one
Reaching out, touching me, touching you
Sweet Caroline
Good times never seemed so good
I'd be inclined
To believe they never would
Oh no, no
Sweet Caroline
Good times never seemed so good
Sweet Caroline
I believe they never could
MoatCity2017-05-17 08:27:03回複悄悄話
Anybody who is personally close, can offer a little info on her status? In the end, we would all face a mountain that is insurmountable, really hope that she is still strong enough to overcome this time around.
霞天上沒有煩惱,願你在天上快樂!愛你永遠!
願你在天堂過得快活!
五月柳,青青煙色隨風走
隨風走,花開陌上,挽歌依舊。
去年今日別塵友,家園成塚無人守。
無人守,遨遊四海,與天同壽。
四海村長,天堂快樂,自由自在自己。
5/20/2018
願你在天上一切安好!
黃鶴寄情執橋展翼 蒼龜忍語依水揚聲
When she first got ill, I asked her if there is any risk factor in her life, she said she does not know any. From reading her travel journal, it seems that her husband is a heavy smoker, on the trip he would go out of hotel room to smoke (as US hotels are mostly non-smoking), and not sure if that is a rule at her home. They seemed to like steak a lot, which may not help.
Little to young to die and it was quick.
Sad!
霞姐是個真實坦誠的人,也特別為別人著想,留給大家的最後文字是節日的祝福,還有對拖累老伴的擔心。不曾想病魔無情,這麽快就帶著了姐姐,也給眾多關心您的網絡朋友們留下思念和哀傷......
剛才補看霞姐全家幾年前來美國看女兒的遊記,看到其樂融融的一家人,對美國很多常見的生活場景和食品充滿新奇,看得我笑起來。就像我們去歐洲遊覽一樣,哪怕超市尋常之物都引得我們好奇,當地人也會覺得有趣吧?從這麽充滿生活氣息的文中突然意識到霞姐已經去了另一個世界......很傷感。
願霞姐的老伴和孩子們節哀保重。
Sweet Caroline (by Neil Diamond )
Where it began, I can't begin to knowing 冥冥盼問
But then I know it's growing strong 春來何處
Was in the spring 日漲愈長難相忘
Then spring became the summer 夏至春歸
Who'd have believed you'd come along 隨影隨形若無常
Hands, touching hands 相看執手
Reaching out, touching me, touching you 咫尺天涯,四海為鄰鄉。
Sweet Caroline 佳人知音
Good times never seemed so good 良辰難忘
I'd be inclined 再不必盡訴蒼茫
To believe they never would
But now I
Look at the night and it don't seem so lonely 長夜孤燈
We filled it up with only two 共話西窗
And when I hurt 心中縱有淒涼
Hurting runs off my shoulders 也遺忘
How can I hurt when I'm holding you
One, touching one 咫尺天涯,共執手
Reaching out, touching me, touching you 四海為鄰鄉
Sweet Caroline 佳人知音
Good times never seemed so good良辰難忘
I'd be inclined 訴不盡萬般蒼茫
To believe they never would
Oh no, no
Sweet Caroline 佳人
Good times never seemed so good良辰難忘
Sweet Caroline 知音
I believe they never could 再不必訴蒼茫
親愛的小妹和小弟,這個周末應該是辦事的日子吧,節哀。雖然你們最後一刻不在你們媽媽的身邊,她最牽掛的就是你們,好好讀書,就業,做一個正直勤奮樂觀的人。這裏的阿姨和叔叔們都祝福你們。雖然媽媽走了,以後有機會去媽媽的家鄉看看。不要忘記她的家鄉。也轉告一下媽媽的同學們,他們給了你們的媽媽很多溫暖。
最後,請霞姐的先生看一下,
Ich m?chte Ihnen noch wünschen, dass die Erinnerung an die Liebe und die gemeinsamen sch?nen Jahre mit Ihrer Ehefrau Ihnen bald ein Trost in schweren Zeiten sein wird – denn diese Erinnerungen kann Ihnen auch der Tod nicht nehmen.
Herzliches Beileid. Vielen Dank für alles, was Sie für Ihre liebe Frau getan haben.
謝謝你的勇敢和誠摯。
永遠不會忘記文學城的霞。
霞,望著你步步走高!天堂一定沒有苦痛。
請你保佑你的一雙兒女!
你不曾離去因霞滿天。
親愛的霞姐姐,五月送您一程回家的路。天堂因您的歌聲霞明玉映,日月同泣。
感謝您為文城帶來笑語歡歌!願您鍾愛的音樂陪伴您在天國安息!
http://blog.wenxuecity.com/myblog/48304/201705/30437.html
祝福你在那個世界一切安好!繼續你喜歡做的事,寫你未寫完的文章。
我相信,你的生命之曲依然響徹著,在這個世界蕩漾~~~一路走好!
為了博文存檔,俺15年底在文學城注了冊,看到好些以前在萬維的老人,霞---也是其中之一,她在萬維的博客名是---霞飛漫天。
俺可能沒有跟她互動過,但她的院子沒有少逛,因為她的博文貼近生活,也幾乎沒有什麽掩飾,是一個透明的網友。也許有人不太能理解或接受她直白的嘮叨,但是,她的話題幾乎涵蓋了普羅大眾生活工作的方方麵麵,讓人感覺一個坦誠的人在跟你麵對麵拉家常。如此,天涯咫尺。作為讀者,作為聽眾,你在聆聽的同時得到啟迪,你、我、他,過著不一樣的日子,也常常麵臨同樣的難題。
去年11月初,她回國送父親魂歸故裏,聖誕節發現肺癌晚期。接下來的半年是她日日夜夜與病魔戰鬥的半年,期間,她博客更新八十多篇,及時告知網友治療進展。有時短短幾行,字裏行間透著她治療過程中的挫折、不放棄以及對美好生命的向往。
五月一日,她發了一篇【祝大家五一勞動節快樂!】,不意竟成絕筆。昨日,在同一篇博文後麵,看到她女兒的留言:“我娘已經在5月20日午夜與世長辭了”,黯然。
在文學城還發現霞多才多藝,她寫詩詞,還有著圓潤的嗓子,貼過不少歌。
霞在三月三十的 博文【謝謝大家的關注和祝福】裏說: 我的生命雖還不到六十年,(在向60努力,再有兩個月多點就能滿60了)可我覺得自己活得無遺無憾,這就夠了。算起來,真的六十歲還差幾天。
一個如此熱愛生活的女子,肉體的生命在接近六十時嘎然而止。可是,看到她的博客,聽她翻唱的那些歌,好像生命又沒有終止。。。
http://my.cnd.org/modules/newbb/viewtopic.php?topic_id=43960&post_id=2992023&order=1&viewmode=flat&pid=0&forum=6#2992023
太可惜了,太難過了。
天上的霞,你的善良,你的才華,我銘記在心。
善良,真實,有才華的霞,一路走好!
送上一首歌:https://youtu.be/GYMLMj-SibU
在這裏看到了友愛,看到了善良和力量。
伴著歌聲,一路走好!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1vhFnTjia_I
Where it began, I can't begin to knowing
But then I know it's growing strong
Was in the spring
Then spring became the summer
Who'd have believed you'd come along
Hands, touching hands
Reaching out, touching me, touching you
Sweet Caroline
Good times never seemed so good
I'd be inclined
To believe they never would
But now I
Look at the night and it don't seem so lonely
We filled it up with only two
And when I hurt
Hurting runs off my shoulders
How can I hurt when I'm holding you
One, touching one
Reaching out, touching me, touching you
Sweet Caroline
Good times never seemed so good
I'd be inclined
To believe they never would
Oh no, no
Sweet Caroline
Good times never seemed so good
Sweet Caroline
I believe they never could
Sweet Caroline
天,這麽樣一個鮮活真實的生命,就這樣離去了。
無語淚千行。。。。。。
四海村長,天堂快樂。
謝謝你留在人世間的這些文字和歌聲。
請霞的家人節哀順變。
這樣也不受罪了。這麽有才的人,一路走來,也很不容易!
望你和家人節哀!
喜愛讀您的文章!多謝!
遙祝母親節健康起來!
第一道 - 青花椰苗精力湯:食材:西蘭花苗15g、紅蘿卜50g、菠蘿200g、蘋果1顆、綜合堅果1大匙、冷開水400cc。作法:將全部食材一起放入調理機容杯,打約45秒即可完成。
第二道 -葡萄藍莓精力湯:食材:紫甘藍苗30g、藍莓60g、蘋果1顆、葡萄150g、綜合堅果1大匙、冷開水350cc。作法:將全部食材一起放入調理機容杯,打約45秒即可完成。一般精力湯的水量大約加到杯中食材的7~8分滿,可以依口感喜好去增減。
第三道 – 高鈣黑芝麻豆漿:食材:蒸熟黃豆100g、糙米飯25g、黑芝麻一匙、熱開水約300cc。作法:將全部食材一起放入調理機容杯,打約90秒即可完成。
第四道 - 黑豆五穀米漿:食材:蒸熟黑豆100g、五穀飯25g、原色冰糖10g(可不加)、熱開水約300cc。作法:將全部食材一起放入調理機,打約90秒即可完成。
霞姐,努力,加油!
你就守著一個念,我肺裏的濁氣濁痰一定能被我吐出去咳出去的。
這兩天閱讀了你的一些舊文,特別享受你的文章的那種緩緩的節奏和熟悉的人文情懷,還看到了你幾張年輕時候的舊照,真是颯爽英姿!您這人高馬大的,身板硬朗,就是基礎儲備好,扛得住的!加油!
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