樵石
女人當自強
博文
(2010-08-17 10:50:27)
嘉寶五，六歲時，她爸爸和我的婚姻基本上是名存實亡。那時他經常出差很少回家。[閱讀全文]
(2010-08-14 20:02:03)
嘉寶小時候，家裏請了保姆。保姆住在我們家裏，嘉寶的起居一切交給她。她也非常盡心，不但要照顧嘉寶，而且幫我們做家務。為了讓嘉寶不影響她做家務，她常常把嘉寶放在電視機前讓她看電視。那時Clinton正由於Manica事件，經常上電視。小嘉寶每天看到Clinton的次數比看到爸爸媽媽還要多。漸漸地她覺得Clinton是她的朋友。有一天，我們去朋友家集會。朋友的超大屏幕電視[閱讀全文]
(2010-08-14 19:38:14)
嘉寶小時我總愛對她唱：youaremysunshine,myonlysunshine;youmakemehappywhensky'sgray...久而久之，她認為她是媽媽的sunshine.她make媽媽happy。這一天，daycare老師教大家唱“YouareMySunshine".兩歲不到的她覺得不可思議，這是媽媽唱給她的歌，隻有她才是她媽媽的sunshine.她不能接受別人也唱。於是她便抗議thisismymammy'ssong,youcan'tsingit![閱讀全文]
(2010-07-31 06:45:13)
以前在一家公司工作，老板总是说，钱是四脚动物，人想追它是无法追上的。反过来，它要追你就容易。也就是说，做事和赚钱，因该是尽力做事，钱自然而然会来。反过来，如果把赚钱放在第一位，恐怕钱会 你越来越远。
淡薄以明誌，寧静以至远[閱讀全文]
淡薄以明誌，寧静以至远[閱讀全文]
(2010-07-22 12:20:57)
Fromhttp://www.istockanalyst.com
ItseemsGoldmanSachsmayhaveahistoryofconflictofinterest(whichalwaysworkedintheirfavour)andtheAbacusscandalmaybeonlyarecentcase.ThisstoryfromGhanadetailshowGoldmanSachsfirsttalkedblack-ownedgoldminerAshantiintoahedgebookin1999andafterAshantibledout,itwassoldtoAnglogold.GoldmanSachswasadvisertoallparties.
FromGhanaweb:In1998,AshantiGoldwasthe3rdlargestGoldMini...[閱讀全文]
ItseemsGoldmanSachsmayhaveahistoryofconflictofinterest(whichalwaysworkedintheirfavour)andtheAbacusscandalmaybeonlyarecentcase.ThisstoryfromGhanadetailshowGoldmanSachsfirsttalkedblack-ownedgoldminerAshantiintoahedgebookin1999andafterAshantibledout,itwassoldtoAnglogold.GoldmanSachswasadvisertoallparties.
FromGhanaweb:In1998,AshantiGoldwasthe3rdlargestGoldMini...[閱讀全文]
(2010-05-26 12:00:45)
你還記得初中課文裏的毛主席詩詞《念奴嬌·鳥兒問答》，有一句“還有吃的，土豆燒熟了，再加牛肉。”當時怎麽也想像不出，這東西有什麽好吃的。如果說“還有吃的，紅燒肉一盤“，那還會覺得共產主義真不錯。當時心裏疑疑惑惑，權且當作它是個好吃的東西吧。
直到後來嫁給了一個3/4的德國人，才明白土豆加牛肉是個什麽東西。它是一道匈牙利菜，Goulash，在德國它[閱讀全文]
(2010-05-26 07:36:33)
Hewhoknowsnotknowsnotheknowsnot;
Heisafool--shunhim.
Hewhoknowsnotandknowsheknowsnot;
Heissimple--teachhim.
Hewhoknowsandknowsnotheknows;
Heisasleep--wakehim.
Hewhoknowsandknowsheknows:
Heiswise--followhim.
--Arabianproverb
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Heisafool--shunhim.
Hewhoknowsnotandknowsheknowsnot;
Heissimple--teachhim.
Hewhoknowsandknowsnotheknows;
Heisasleep--wakehim.
Hewhoknowsandknowsheknows:
Heiswise--followhim.
--Arabianproverb
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(2010-05-25 20:10:35)
讀圍觀生活《國男洋男大不同內嫁外嫁更不同》一點感想
Marriagelikeshoeonfeet.Otherscan'ttelliftheyarefitornot.Itispersonalchoice.Ithinkweshouldrespectthat.Ithasnothingtodowithrace.Ihavetwomostimportantmeninmylife,myfirsthusbandandmysecond.MyfirsthusbandisChinese.Heisthebest,andstillis.Weonceweresomuchinlove.Thatwasmyhappiesttimeinmylife.IneverregreteventhoughIpaidsuchhighpricelateonwhenhestartedt...[閱讀全文]
Marriagelikeshoeonfeet.Otherscan'ttelliftheyarefitornot.Itispersonalchoice.Ithinkweshouldrespectthat.Ithasnothingtodowithrace.Ihavetwomostimportantmeninmylife,myfirsthusbandandmysecond.MyfirsthusbandisChinese.Heisthebest,andstillis.Weonceweresomuchinlove.Thatwasmyhappiesttimeinmylife.IneverregreteventhoughIpaidsuchhighpricelateonwhenhestartedt...[閱讀全文]
(2010-05-25 09:52:47)
從未想過離婚，當時結婚便抱定了廝守終生。可是還是離婚了，再婚卻是外嫁。並不有心要嫁老外，陰差陽錯，鬼使神差，或許是命中注定吧。曾經的戀人和丈夫是多麽的癡情體貼，賺得多少嫉妒，羨慕。如今結婚十多年後最後離婚，讓人覺得婚姻，愛情如行雲流水不可琢磨。再看看身邊同齡的單身男士，不是歪瓜裂棗就是心態有問題。好的男士都有家室。我一不忍心去破壞[閱讀全文]
(2010-05-25 09:35:48)
Desiderata
MaxEhrmann
Goplacidlyamidthenoiseandhaste,andrememberwhatpeacetheremaybeinsilence.Asfaraspossiblewithoutsurrenderbeongoodtermswithallpersons.Speakyourtruthquietlyandclearly;andlistentoothers,eventhedullandignorant;theytoohavetheirstory.Avoidloudandaggressivepersons,theyarevexationstothespirit.Ifyoucompareyourselfwithothers,youmaybecomevainandbitter;foralwaystherewillbegreaterand...[閱讀全文]
MaxEhrmann
Goplacidlyamidthenoiseandhaste,andrememberwhatpeacetheremaybeinsilence.Asfaraspossiblewithoutsurrenderbeongoodtermswithallpersons.Speakyourtruthquietlyandclearly;andlistentoothers,eventhedullandignorant;theytoohavetheirstory.Avoidloudandaggressivepersons,theyarevexationstothespirit.Ifyoucompareyourselfwithothers,youmaybecomevainandbitter;foralwaystherewillbegreaterand...[閱讀全文]
