來源:crazydog於05-12-3113:33:03
Onecannotbeagoodonewithoutanunderstandingofchildpsychologicaldevelopment.Infantshaveintrinsicrythsmsastowhentoeatandsleep.Ittakesanintelligentparenttouncoverit,nottotraintheinfanttoyourownscheduleandruinherintrinsicpattern.Thefactthatshecriedsomuchsuggestthatyouareignoringherownpattern.Holdingbabyisnecessaryforthementalhealthaswellasphysicaldevelopmentofthebaby....[
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來源:crazydog於05-12-1615:06:54
Thelatestadvicebypediatriciansistostartsolidfoodfrom6monthsoldANDifyourbabyisready.Noneedtodoittooearlyanddon'tforceit.Justrelax.Yourbabywillguideyou.
Regardingcereal,startingitfirstisbecausemostbabiesarenotallergictoit,notbecauseithasanynutritionvalue.Actuallyotherthanthefortifiedironitcontains,itdoesnothavemuchnutritionvalues.Manybabiesdonotlikeit,mineincl...[
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來源:cilian於05-12-1514:11:30
兒子一歲多了，婆婆剛來。也幫著看兒子，但總是教他如何親奶奶。從不叫他叫媽媽。整天爸爸，爺爺的叫，我心裏有疙瘩。現在，她一說親奶奶，兒子會馬上撲過去。我說到媽媽這來，兒子會哭，我真不明白。自己一把屎一把尿帶大的兒子竟不認我。除了喂奶，兒子跟我的關係看起來不如這個剛來的奶奶好，我很痛苦。奶奶想著法要讓我斷奶，也[
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來源:crazydog於07-08-0211:58:45
Whenkidsaresmall(2),letthemhaveachancetobeindependentandsortouttheirownissues.Teachthebasicselfdefenseskill,likesaying"No,Stop!"loudly.Butotherwiseletkidsdealwitheachother.Thisisarealworldwithallsortsofpeople.Kidsneedachancetogrowup.Oneexception:ifthereisamuchyoungerkidaround,thenIstopmineifsheisnotcarefulwiththeyoungerkid.Witholderkids,Iletherdefendhe...[
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Kidswillgetthrougheventually,butparentsfeelmuchworse.
SeveralthingsIlearntfromourpreschool:
1.TalktoRuruaboutroutinesindaycare.Tellhertheprogramsofthedayintheorderofhappening(likeplaying,snacks,outsidetime,lunch,nap,thenparentscoming)sothatsheknowswhattoexpect.Alsotellherthingsthatsheisexpectedtodobyherself:eating?drinkingfromwhattypeofglass/bottle?herownblanketandlovy,howtheychangediapers...[
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Ijustcamebackfroma3-weektriptoChinawithmy18-monthold.Ihadthesameworryasyoubecausemybabyisonallorganicfood/milkhere,andthereisnosuchthingasorganicinAsia.Inaddition,Iworryaboutallthefoodsafetyissues.However,justthink,yourbabywillonlybelivingonthosefoodforafewweeks--itisnotgoingtodotoomuchharm.Thisiswhatyoucando:
1)Bringsomeroom-temppackagedmilk---Horizonbrandhavesmallpapercontainerorganicmilk(24...[
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Ipersonallyknowplentyofbabyfailingthistypeofcry-it-outmethod,especiallyifthebabyisover1yearold.Somebabieswillcryallnight,literally!
Itriedthismethodonminewhenshewas7-monthold.Itworkedafter4nights.However,theoldpatterncamebackinamonthandlaterafteranysmalldisturbanceinherlife-teething,catchingacold,traveling,changingroom,etc,younameit.Youhavetocry-it-outagainandagain.
WhenIwaytryingitanoth...[
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Crazydog,美國知名學府的終身教授,一個可愛小女孩的媽媽,親親寶貝論壇很多媽媽的偶像.
她的帖子透著她富有張力的個性,豐富的學識,獨特的見解，讓讀者如沐春風,所以大家都尊稱她為瘋老大.
Crazydog為人低調,很少見她發主貼,可非常熱心,大部分時間是默默無聞的回答親親寶貝媽媽們的問題.我們大部分都是在北美剛剛當上媽媽,我們有很多獨特的問題是在中國和北美當地的[
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