Crazydog
這個博克是Crazydog的粉絲特地為她建立的. Crazydog被大家尊稱為瘋老大,我就以瘋老大作為博克的主頁名稱.為了避借C
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來源: cilian 於 05-12-15 14:11:30
兒子一歲多了，婆婆剛來。也幫著看兒子，但總是教他如何親奶奶。從不叫他叫媽媽。整天爸爸，爺爺的叫，我心裏有疙瘩。現在，她一說親奶奶，兒子會馬上撲過去。我說到媽媽這來，兒子會哭，我真不明白。自己一把屎一把尿帶大的兒子竟不認我。除了喂奶，兒子跟我的關係看起來不如這個剛來的奶奶好，我很痛苦。奶奶想著法要讓我斷奶，也做飯，但總是兒子先吃，要知道我喂奶的人餓得快，但礙於麵子隻好喂完兒子在自己吃，往往飯菜已涼，肚子餓過了，食之無味了。頭腦混亂中寫下，我是不是雞蛋裏頭挑骨頭，隨便扔磚吧。
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Children do not lie
來源: crazydog 於 05-12-15 16:40:31
They will show honestly how they feel. If he is closer to a grandmother who has only been here for a short period of time than you, then you as a mother need to review how you interacts with your son!
Are you spending enough time with him every day? Have you been paying attention to his emotional and physical needs? Usually it is very difficult to distant a child from the mom no matter how sweet the other party is.
My mother-in-law also tried to teach my 18-month-old to call and kiss "nai-nai" non-stop. But my daughter would not stay with her for more than 10 min before she started looking for me. It is much more fun to play with mother than to play with grandma, right? Grandma has no energy and only asks her to sit and be obedient, and do not quite understand what she needs, while mother allows her to climb everywhere and play like crazy and gives her mental security.
Your son is yours! The only way that he is not is if you do not care. Grandma is no competition.
以下中文翻譯由newmommy1106提供.
孩子們會毫不掩飾地表露他們的感受。如果奶奶才住了那麽短的一段時間，你的兒子卻已經跟她更親，那麽你作為媽媽應該反省自己和兒子之間的互動：
你是否每天花足夠的時間和兒子在一起？你是否注意到他的情感和身體的需要？別人做得再好，通常也很難把孩子的心從媽媽身上搶走。
我的婆婆也曾經試圖不停地教我的女兒叫奶奶和親奶奶，但女兒和她在一起不過十分鍾就會開始找我。跟媽媽玩比跟奶奶玩可有趣多了。奶奶精力不繼，隻能讓她坐著和聽話，並且不太了解她需要什麽，而媽媽則允許她到處爬，瘋玩，而且給她安全感。
兒子是你的！隻有你不在乎時他才可能被奪走。奶奶爭不過你的。
兒子一歲多了，婆婆剛來。也幫著看兒子，但總是教他如何親奶奶。從不叫他叫媽媽。整天爸爸，爺爺的叫，我心裏有疙瘩。現在，她一說親奶奶，兒子會馬上撲過去。我說到媽媽這來，兒子會哭，我真不明白。自己一把屎一把尿帶大的兒子竟不認我。除了喂奶，兒子跟我的關係看起來不如這個剛來的奶奶好，我很痛苦。奶奶想著法要讓我斷奶，也做飯，但總是兒子先吃，要知道我喂奶的人餓得快，但礙於麵子隻好喂完兒子在自己吃，往往飯菜已涼，肚子餓過了，食之無味了。頭腦混亂中寫下，我是不是雞蛋裏頭挑骨頭，隨便扔磚吧。
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Children do not lie
來源: crazydog 於 05-12-15 16:40:31
They will show honestly how they feel. If he is closer to a grandmother who has only been here for a short period of time than you, then you as a mother need to review how you interacts with your son!
Are you spending enough time with him every day? Have you been paying attention to his emotional and physical needs? Usually it is very difficult to distant a child from the mom no matter how sweet the other party is.
My mother-in-law also tried to teach my 18-month-old to call and kiss "nai-nai" non-stop. But my daughter would not stay with her for more than 10 min before she started looking for me. It is much more fun to play with mother than to play with grandma, right? Grandma has no energy and only asks her to sit and be obedient, and do not quite understand what she needs, while mother allows her to climb everywhere and play like crazy and gives her mental security.
Your son is yours! The only way that he is not is if you do not care. Grandma is no competition.
以下中文翻譯由newmommy1106提供.
孩子們會毫不掩飾地表露他們的感受。如果奶奶才住了那麽短的一段時間，你的兒子卻已經跟她更親，那麽你作為媽媽應該反省自己和兒子之間的互動：
你是否每天花足夠的時間和兒子在一起？你是否注意到他的情感和身體的需要？別人做得再好，通常也很難把孩子的心從媽媽身上搶走。
我的婆婆也曾經試圖不停地教我的女兒叫奶奶和親奶奶，但女兒和她在一起不過十分鍾就會開始找我。跟媽媽玩比跟奶奶玩可有趣多了。奶奶精力不繼，隻能讓她坐著和聽話，並且不太了解她需要什麽，而媽媽則允許她到處爬，瘋玩，而且給她安全感。
兒子是你的！隻有你不在乎時他才可能被奪走。奶奶爭不過你的。
你是否每天花足夠的時間和兒子在一起？你是否注意到他的情感和身體的需要？別人做得再好，通常也很難把孩子的心從媽媽身上搶走。
我的婆婆也曾經試圖不停地教我的女兒叫奶奶和親奶奶，但女兒和她在一起不過十分鍾就會開始找我。跟媽媽玩比跟奶奶玩可有趣多了。奶奶精力不繼，隻能讓她坐著和聽話，並且不太了解她需要什麽，而媽媽則允許她到處爬，瘋玩，而且給她安全感。
兒子是你的！隻有你不在乎時他才可能被奪走。奶奶爭不過你的。