Like I said before, parents shouldn't try to design kids' lives or make them living in a lab like environment.
kids should be allowed to find their own intrincinc interest and strength and they should be allowed to fail.
Having a taste of failure at their early years is a healthy remedy for sheltered, entitled kids today.
No one should be put into a mold growing up. That creates a lot of problems when kids become adults.
The best example is the English Royals. When someone is destined to be the king or prince, they're deprived of their individuality and the motivation to pursue their own meaning of life. One day or another, they'd feel lost and have to find their own ways back.
