Value yourself.

 

Don't wait for others to do so; keep that power to yourself. You don't need their politeness to feel good about yourself. And do not distract yourself by fretting over something that is not under your control.

They might want that flexibility so that they do not reject you too early, by leaving their options open. Besides, the sheer volume makes it impractical to reply to each rejected candidate.

 

(Why do you feel the need to 敬仰 a business entity? By doing so, are you off-loading something from your own shoulders? It's a business transaction, keep it as what it is. Don't weaken your position by being sentimental.)

 

所有跟帖： 

• 現在的中文通脹，“敬仰”不是真的那麽嚴重。沒用“麵試官”“謙卑”已經不錯了。 -廢話多多- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/19/2021 postreply 11:38:28

• 那時候隻能敬仰毛主席，看來是老了。:-) -One1618- ♂ (0 bytes) () 10/19/2021 postreply 11:52:53

• 最近看了這個視頻 -美國老土- ♂ (93 bytes) () 10/19/2021 postreply 12:18:09

• 現在是英文翻中文。我打respectful就給翻譯成敬仰了。 -kathyzh- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/20/2021 postreply 06:00:56

• 字字句句都是真經驗！讚！ -美國老土- ♂ (0 bytes) () 10/19/2021 postreply 12:08:18

• 謝謝。摔了很多跟頭，知道的太晚了。 -One1618- ♂ (0 bytes) () 10/19/2021 postreply 12:14:37

• 已經收到其他公司的offer，所以需要根據這家公司的回應做出最終決定. -kathyzh- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/20/2021 postreply 06:04:10

• 直接給recruiter發email問 -默墨- ♀ (48 bytes) () 10/20/2021 postreply 08:04:17

• 沒有recruiter，自己聯係的。已放棄了。選了別家公司。 -kathyzh- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/20/2021 postreply 09:19:45

• 我說的是那家公司的recruiter。誰聯係你麵試的，你就聯係誰 -默墨- ♀ (0 bytes) () 10/20/2021 postreply 12:41:13